I don't know about other guys but i do find it to be an attractive quality if a woman is confident in herself. Normally you see girls saying how much they like confident guys but confident women can be attractive to guys too in my opinion. depends on the guy of course. Guys are you into confident women?
Girls do any of you think of yourself as confident?
It depends. As a man I like a woman with some confidence. What that’s from can vary: confidence from her professional success & skills; confidence from her physical fitness & beauty; confidence from her strength of character & personality. Each type brings a different type of confidence. Each type has a specific way it can turn me/a man on. Am I meeting this woman in a professional realm, are we taking a class together, or are we meeting on a first date? It’s going to all be part of the way that confidence is perceived. I love meeting a skilled equal who works in my field (that’s what I married). I also love meeting a woman with a physical beauty that knows it (and carries that inherent confidence too).
I’ve know a lot of people who allow confidence to start to creep into arrogance and it’s a huge turn off so it’s probably important to have an equal measure of humility to balance one out too.
Lastly, as a man, I like to see women succeed in the male dominated field I work in but have encountered a few who don’t understand that the best of those in my field are far more busy chasing the skill and never really feeling like they have attainted mastery. Anybody who feels that they have ‘proven themselves’ often loses the respect of those who are trying to “…earn their way every day.”
If you’re confident even when you have no idea what in the hell you’re talking about, you cross the line to bitch.
Frankly, most men can’t handle it.
only the toughest of the tough can.
I work around a lot of men, and the beta and lower men can’t handle me, question me and try make me look like I don’t know things so they can save the day. I’ve been in this field 20 years, specializing for 10 on what I do. Basically, I know my shit.
Where as Alpha men- love me- in work and relationship-wise
I work in a field around military (tier 1/2) and police (swat/viper/quick teams), my coworkers are all beta or less and do nothing but question me. The second the military and police arrive, the respect they give me is on another level.
If I am talking and my ceo cuts me off (happens often because he wants to assert dominance), they will literally turn away from him to listen to me. They can see what he does to disrespect me and they shut it down, I ignore it. Yay ceo with a napoleon complex….
I'm "oozing" with confidence and my successes & net worth are the results my mettle.
If my intimidating factor is what turn off some men, so be it.
It takes birds of the same feather to flock together with me.
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I like a confident woman very much, arrogant ones on the other hand not at all. Fun thing is also that most women that look down on men are actually not the confident women they think they are but the most insecure ones, that`s why they constantly hate on men because they have an inferiority complex and think they need to prove themselves to others. A truly confident woman doesn`t bother with that bs, because she knows she doesn`t have to.
Honestly, I come off as a pretty confident woman because I'm really good at faking it. I have to in my job, otherwise I don't get hired if I can't sell myself. But as soon as a guy shows interest in me, I tend to be on the shier side and I can't do anything about it.
Confident (I know what I want I’m life, I am assertive with my communication, I accept what I can’t control and make the best of what I have) and ambitious.
and loving to my hubby. (caring, give him space, respect his need to have his own time and encourage him to be better in ways that’s good for him.)
Well, first of all, we need to define what is meant under "confident". Is it about how she looks (beauty, attractiveness, sexiness, etc), or is it about her social status? To me, if its about her look, yes, that's a nice quality to have. If its about her social status - i do not care.
Honestly I've always been pretty confident and men have told me they wouldn't approach me because they thought I was better than them because of how I carried myself when in reality I never felt I was better than others.
Rarely do I meet a confident person. Most people are just assholes.
So if I have to choose between a "confident" girl and a insecure girl... I'll choose the normal one.
s I don't consider myself confident. I must confess that I've had worst days, but my self-esteem is not at the right level yet. But I know I'll get there, it's just a matter of time, work and patience.
my boyfriend told me society wants you all to think women are supposed to be confident and/or masculine, but that isn't want a man wants I mean like yes confidence is good but not masculine confidence
What many women call confidence is actually ego and domineering behavior which no man likes. No confident person has to beat a drum saying that they're confident.
I know that confidence is attractive to men and it is also attractive to me so that’s why it sucks that I am not confident in myself because I know it just makes me even more unattractive
Confident yes. The problem is too many women confuse "argumentative" with confident.
Confidents is a turn on but there is a fine line being confident on who you are then there's just being a BITCH and no one finds that attractive at all. that goes for guys also being confident on who you are and then there's being a DICK.
Yeah I say so I just don’t like when a girl put herself down, degrade herself, or points out flaws she thinks she has. There is a point though where confidence can turn into being cocky though which is a turn off.
If a guy can't deal with a smart, strong, confident woman, then... tough on him !!!
It's not a turn on as in get me aroused. That said, it's crazy attractive.
Not to get into semantics but I think it would help to define what confidence is in women because it might look different in men and from person to person.
I'm confident in certain areas in my life & I lack confidence in others.
I love confident women. Nothing is worse than dealing with someone who isn't comfortable in their own skin.
s I’m not confident with most things, and my self esteem is low, so my self confidence doesn’t exist.
my vote is a spot between 1st 2 options. its part of a turn on as it lends towards a pleasing personality.
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