Let me clarify more. I know women (and men, too) cannot be split into black and white for everything. People are unique. However, I know men like women they “can’t have” or whatever the saying is, and usually the women who seem aloof might attract certain men. Do you think it’s a turnoff if a girl is really friendly and super nice to everyone? I can’t really explain this well, but I just can’t tell if men prefer more “mysterious” and introverted women or the more extroverted and friendly types. Does it turn you off if a girl has RBF but has a really elevated look?
for context, I am really slender (119 pounds at 5’8”) and I wear a lot of designer brands and stilettos, even at the gym. Only the confident dudes approach me. I don’t think I look super approachable unless I’m in my gym wear. I am kind to everyone but I am really introverted sometimes and guys won’t ask me out unless I really put myself out there and I might have to indicate more strongly if I’m interested. I’m trying to be more friendly and open but don’t want to seem fake.
for context, I am really slender (119 pounds at 5’8”) and I wear a lot of designer brands and stilettos, even at the gym. Only the confident dudes approach me. I don’t think I look super approachable unless I’m in my gym wear. I am kind to everyone but I am really introverted sometimes and guys won’t ask me out unless I really put myself out there and I might have to indicate more strongly if I’m interested. I’m trying to be more friendly and open but don’t want to seem fake.
