Is it a redflag if your boyfriend has/takes no photos of you?

[Anonymous]

He was scrolling through his camera roll, looking for some old pics. He has zero photos of me. Not a single one. I'd be fine with it if he just wasn't someone that took photos of people, but he had photos of his family members, his kids, himself, his friends, his coworkers, him and his coworkers.

I love him a lot so I can't help take a pic of him when he looks adorable or handsome or happy. He even asks me to takes pictures of him. But he didn't think to take my photo not even once.

He just recently asked me to move in with him (which I think is too soon), but I'm doubting my importance in his life and honestly feel like he just wants a roommate to split bills, cook meals, and clean. We've been together 8 months.

[SueShe]

Personally, I would prefer that no pictures of me are available on any device because as soon as someone takes a picture of you, you totally lose control of that picture.

What will happen with them once you no longer are together? Will they end somewhere where you don't want to see them like in some kind of revenge site because you separated in unfriendly terms?

Be glad that he has no pictures of you. He has you in person and there is no need to have pictures of you.

I am totally against being on photos and I do avoid whenever possible to be on any pictures. I have never ever taken a selfie and there is no photos of me on the internet.

[justjenny97]

meh, look to deeply into anything and you’ll find a reason to be unhappy. Pay attention to what matters.

[Staximus]

Yeah that's kind of suspicious. Usually a guy has no pictures on his phone of girl he's fooling around with on the side so the girl he's in a relationship with doesn't see them. Either that or he's a narcissist who only wants to take pictures of himself.

[Avicenna]

Yes, it is a red flag

[Iron_Man]

Yes it is