My relationship is on hiatus and o don’t know what to do at this point?

[Anonymous]

I (F45) and my boyfriend (M43) have been in a relationship for 3 and a half years. Right now, we have been on a break for 3 weeks. He doesn’t want to see me or talk to me and won’t tell me why. We have been communicating regularly over text message, but he doesn’t want to meet up in person to talk things over, but won’t break up with me. I have asked several times to meet and talk. He won’t budge on it. He won’t tell me what’s going on. I would like to get him to agree to talk with me. I still want to be in this relationship, but not sure what to do from here.

[Avicenna]

If he can’t communicate and you have no idea why he’s doing this, you need to be out of this relationship.

[ItsaMeMaik]

That sounds to me like he's hiding something, maybe another woman? I can't tell you what to do, if I were you I would end it. He could do anything else without you knowing and he's not even man enough to talk to you. That's all a huge red flag🙈

[Anonymous]

He’s with someone else and trying to keep you two separate.

[StevenMcGarrett]

It sucks that he won't tell you but I think it is best to move on like you have broken up. He is acting like he wants to break up. If he wants you, he knows how to get a hold of you.

[strateguy632]

So dump that jerk.

[MasterKS]

Move on my dear!