I been with my boyfriend for 2 months. I made a mistake not asking him to get tested for stds but I was checked and he gave me an std. I told him and now we both got checked and I took my medicine. He has told me that before me he had a friend with benefit that lives locally nearby and that they still follow on ig. I asked him to please block her and not speak to her again since its odd that they fucked and no reason to still talk. He told me a month ago showing me her profile pic that he blocked her. I had a weird feeling so reverse search image and seen its just a fake profile also the page is strange person follows 300 but no followers. He also said her name was Ruth but the real girl of that pic is just a model and her name is amber. I told him about it and also had told him whats his problem liking his coworkers underwear bra pic and he says "just a pic, im not attracted to her" so I say why like the pic if you don't like her. I told him it makes me really uncomfortable and I know he wouldn't like it if I did that with random men. I'm really thinking if a relationship is worth it if he can't even be honest with me and can't respect me. I feel its way better to be alone at this point I just feel he's dragging me down now. I can't believe a word he says now and my trust is gone after finding lies
Is there any way to fix my relationship or should I call it quits?
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1 y
he's getting more distant too. Barely talks to me. He doesn't even tell me that he's gonna be busy anymore. He used to say "hey I will text you in an hour going to workout". Now I dont hear from him several hours. I asked at 9pm if he can call me tonight and he said "yeah" its already midnight never heard from him. I'm just thinking about breaking up with him at this point. I dont see why I should be with someone when they don't show any effort after I asked him to and he had agreed.
