Who pays on dates?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this girl for about a month, we go out a lot and eat, I’m extremely frugal with my spending, and pride myself on it, she doesn’t expect me to buy her food and she offers to pay, I just feel really weird making her pay, do I have to pay for everything always?

[Gwendoline]

If he's asked her out then him but I don't see why dates should only take place at like an expensive restaurant. When I was dating my husband there were walks, hikes, picnics, breakfast, the zoo, museums, art shows, festivals, fairs, carnivals, water parks, adventure parks. We even played laser tag one time.

[Nikki1989]

Don't go out on dates if you are not prepared to spend money. Tight asses with money tend to be very dull people to be around.

[Asker]

Are you too braindead to read? Has the excess fat on your body taken too much blood from your brain and you can’t properly understand what I wrote? Not wanting to spend $60-80 a day on junk food is fucking dull? Why even waste 2 calories out of your daily 4000 typing an answer to a question you don’t comprehend or take the time to understand.

[Asker]

Stop thinking you as an obese inferior weak human have the option to try to offend others, and stay in your place you disgusting fat pig.

[Tomisworthless]

In my experience of being out with women is that they pay for their own food as a way of telling me she doesn't like me like that and its not a date

[Asker]

I’m past that point and we’re dating now. Not worried about making her like me or visa versa, I can’t afford to spend $60-$80 a day anymore on food, which isn’t her fault, I just feel really weird making her pay for stuff

[Asker]

Before her I spent $60 on food a week now it’s daily

[Tomisworthless]

Dont go out daily? Dont set a precedent you won't be able to maintain. Put your foot down

[Nifrayu]

Ah. So you're saying if they only pay for their food and not yours, then they're not really interested.

[LiamJHayden]

The couple should do whatever works for them. I really do not worry about it even with friends but everyone's situation is different.

[AmazonChick171]

It should be 50/50. One person should not only to pay.

[Nifrayu]

Why do you feel awkward about that?

[Anonymous]

Split it