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This question is silly to me. No person should be given the natural role of paying simply based on their gender. Once the date ends, just talk about it.
Example 1:
Girl: Should we split the cheque?
Boy: No, I'll pay.
Example 2:
Boy: Would you like me to pay?
Girl: I'm fine with splitting.
Example 3:
Girl: I'll pay.
Boy: I'll pay for the next one, then.
This isn't the devisive issue everyone makes it out to be. A quick conversation between the two on the date is all it takes
Let's split. No expectations left behind
Good though.
I think the guy should go into the date with the intent of paying. I always do. And I would say at least half, and truthfully probably the majority of women have at least offered to pay (their share). Which while not necessary, I think says something about the woman's character. I can tell you I always appreciate just the fact that she's offered.
If you date women who always expect you to pay and never offer. I think you might want to take a look at the type of women you're asking out.
Depends on the details. I generally don't go big on a first date - that is for getting to know each other. If she wants someone to impress her with their largesse, then she wants someone else.
I have been on all three of these date options.
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A traditional man will pay. A modern man looking for a modern woman can do whatever he feels like. A women should at least offer to split regardless of if she is traditional or not. There is no should, this is just one of the first steps in setting up expectations and seeing how the other thinks.
half and half
but let me be honest i would probably eat whatever i want if we are spliting since there is another person who will support me.
Do u wanna be a man? Or a ball less creature
Usually whoever asks the other on the date so it could be a girl or a guy
I always pay, and if I have a chance, I prefer to pay for her dates with other guys, as well.
In 1999 100% guy, 2023 and beyond 100% split.
always split unless discussed and agreed beforehand.
Depends who suggested the venue, failing that split it or at least realistic split.
The person who initiates the ask. However, even if a girl asked me out on a date, if I accepted, I'd pay for it. That's just the way I like it.
I was brought up to be a gentleman and as such the guy should at least offer to pay
Yje person that extends the invitation should pay..
I'm going for split it, unless he's offering to pay.
The guy should always pay
Whoever does the inviting.
The asker should at least offer.
The person who asked.
The waitress should
It's really what a guy should do
The one who does the inviting
It should be equal
Split equally
The inviter.
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