men and women should split the check but in all reality money shouldn't be that important, to where you literally have to fight over who won't pay. If you care for your partner you are 100% fine with paying. If I went on a date, i'd offer to cover it because i've been raised that way. But if the guy was to agree to that right away, my feelings would decrease, because it is also well mannered to refuse for someone to pay for you a few times before you agree. So for me it doesn't matter at all whether its a man or a woman who is paying, what matters is the intentions of the two people, one should not be greedy with money or cheap.
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I had to google what 'going Dutch' meant, hahahah. I don't think there's a single reason why men should still pay. I don't know why you would expect them to, given that date is supposed to be a night out TOGETHER (meaning both are having fun and therefore both should pay) and not a favor you're doing to him. Women already make their own money and (at least most) want to be equal. So yes, we should go dutch.
I think government should pay for dates.
Because if they do, it might help in increasing declining population in West.
I also suggest handing out free subscription to dating sites, unlimited access to tissues and nudes to single men and women
#FreeDates #DateStamps
In an ideal world - entirely free of gender roles and stereotypes - it would make the most sense for the initiator of the date to pay for both parties. However, since we are still bound by gender roles, and men do 95% of the initiating, it wouldn't be fair to hold them to that standard.
In our current state of progressiveness as a society, it would only be just to split the cost 50/50 between both parties, because chances are, the woman was equally interested in the man as he was in her, but she held back from initiating because she's been told that it is unacceptable (which is absolute horseshit, by the way).
women should pay all time time. I never ever pay. if they want my companion for some time the least they can do is to pay for stuff. my time is precious and time is money. if they want they will pay if not I don't give a shit
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i think it's up to the people on the date and in the relationship... but i don't think there should be any standardized expectations that apply to everyone
Whoever invited the other on the date, and when it it becomes a mutual thing, go dutch. Do I have to explain? Seems common sense to me, but women, like anyone, like free meals. So they fight for equality but try to get away with the free food and no draft enlistment :)
Like I stated earlier :
It's called etiquette. Female can contribute if :
1. Both are students, in that case is acceptable to share the bill.
2. It's work related dinner (or lunch or whatever)
Money she's using isn't hers, it's company's money
Otherwise etiquette says, that man should pay.
Maybe you don't like it, but not following etiquette makes you yokel.Women should pay. I'm not a cheap guy who just dines with any woman. You gotta earn this; you gotta pay for THIS. Feel special you're dining with me. My presence is enough payment, she can take the bill.
Whoever invited/planned out the date. I can't imagine it being fair if the girl plans out an extravagant surprise helicopter ride... and then expects the guy to pay.
Women should pay, screw going dutch we've been paying for the last 200 years at least for womens meals, you gals have the next 200 years; then we can thing about "going dutch" fuck the dutch
scontent-ort2-1.xx.fbcdn.net/.../...08370228_n.jpgI'll bring money on a date to pay... but most guys I've dated always insist. I don't mind if they do or don't. 😊
Men should pay because of mannerisms. It's not about the guy always spending and all. My fiance always pays for our dates and when im the one that's actually pays, I give the cash to him so he can pay.
Both should pay for their share of the date.
Split the bill is fair, but if you want to be a gentleman, you should pay. On the other hand, if she is a modern woman, she can pay.
I believe that women should pay. Not only for my meal but for my time. I feel like if a woman doesn't wanna pay then she obviously doesn't think much of me and she WILL NOT be getting a second date with me. No exceptions.
How about we stop asking this freaking question? Whoever wants to pay can pay. Who gives a fuk anymore. Smh.
I believe that whoever initiated the date should pay, unless they have plans on going dutch.
The man should pay for the first date and if she is at all interested, then the woman should immediately offer to pay for something like next coffee or dessert.
Depend what you expect, if you expect your date to be all doll up, wearing make up, dress and high heels the man should pay if no I would say half half even if it's far from being romantic.
The waiter or waitress they should be honored that they have 2 turd sandwiches coming to their restaurant.
Whoever asked to go on a date should pay, women ask to go on dates just like men do.
There is no "should". I would gladly pay for dates. Some men won't. The best compromise would be to go dutch.
Well, since this is such an issue... go to no dates!! Fuck dating as a whole, the bedroom is free. ;)
So is the carpet floor and the car... did I mention the bath tub? Oh shit! How could I forget the kitchen counter?Split the bill the first dates.
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