Sex with older man?

Question

I’m a 20-year-old girl who has had a fantasy about being with older men ( 30-50) for a long time. I thought I would grow out of it, but my desire has only gotten stronger. I work at a hotel and have been approached by older men, but I’ve always refused because I don’t mix work with my personal life. One guest really turned me on with his respectful approach, and I was tempted, but I didn’t act on it.

I want to experience intimacy with one. I live in Norway and haven’t had much luck connecting with older men here. Can anyone recommend apps or websites where I can meet older men, preferably in Norway?

I tried Tinder and other apps, but most of the people I match with are far from Norway.”

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

There are quite a few women exactly like you and I think it's because guys your age are immature they manipulate they lie to get what they want and

I believe you probably know what you want and you can feel that energy from an older guy becoming one with you just by the way he looks into your eyes hold your hand touches you kisses you and respect you I don't think you'll ever grow out of it because it is real it is truly you so it's a real feeling and I think that you probably love to experience that because it could be a beautiful thing and I just think you know that

So I would think that there would be lots of fantasies about it or experiences that you would love to experience and there's nothing wrong with that I think it's a beautiful thing really

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

I've always had predominantly much younger women , but not as most assume in Thailand ( In Thailand I dont do younger , I find then vastly different ) , and I like the communication , and intense situations that I experienced in the West ( Australia ) , so I appreciate what you are saying because its difficult on both sides of the fence , as I consider most my age vastly different ( not all , but most ) , some websites would not even allow me to access the age group I required , and of course I'm talking reasonable age..

I have some friends here from Norway , it seems a lovely place but I have not been.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Are you really willing to lose your dignity and self-esteem just for a few muscular contractions and spasms?

Those deviant fantasies are a sign of deeply rooted psychological issues and I would urge you to seek the help of a specialist that can attempt to go over your psychological problems and to resolve them. Your approach to fornication is not really healthy and you are only harming yourself and probably, at the same time, doing a good job at ruining a household and probably your health as well.

Also, beware of GaGers that want to slide into your DM like this "kareka" guy because they are never who they pretend to be and are only interested in getting nudes from you.

I know because I have been a victim of such attempts as well.

Crimsyjo · Accepted Answer

I don't know if date apps are just not popular in Norway? But you really shouldn't have ANY trouble at all finding an older guy wanting to be with a gal your age. NONE.

But as they don't want to be called creeps your gonna have to give clear signals it's what u want. Are u looking for casual not relationship?

Billlewis · Answer

There are quite a few ways to meet people of various categories. I just started following you and you're welcome to follow or message me if you'd like to discuss this.

Anonymous · Answer

My experience with older men is that unlike younger men the sex is better and lasts longer but older men are often too tired past a certain time for sex or if they've had a big dinner. Morning after a good rest is best. They also usually can only perform once.

Nonamez · Answer

Go for it but play safe , only buy trying you will find do you like it or not and don't judge with only one try , unless you got the lucky ticket, I would suggest to use Bumble, where woman are in control
If I were living in Norway , we would go for a date 😈🔥😅

HighValue · Answer

Regardless of age differences, why only have casual sex? Why not get to know one and try t o find one that may be compatible for a long term relationship instead? I think that would lead to more happiness in the long run for you.

MK1997 · Answer

Please don't listen to people like Sue, she has no idea what she's talking about and she's biased.  Try and look for them in bars or other dating sites. There are many.

Truthatanycost · Answer

With great temporary pleasure comes long term consequences. I recommend seeking something eternal that won't destroy your life, health or safety. Seek first the Kingdom...

Nikki1989 · Answer

This is the last website you should be talking about this. The creeps with flock to you like flies on poop.

exitseven · Answer

I would imagine you would have guys lined up around the block.

Dammittu · Answer

Hit me up girl I'm 47 and don't look or act a day over 18

Berethor · Answer

I don't know an app for older men from Norway, dating apps tend to suck in general.

Tulip_A_Dasiy · Answer

I have had sex with older men nothing special

rebeliouse · Answer

you do right defo dont mix work with pleasure why not just approach men in bars or even better supermarkets etc much better to find a guy that way than on dating app that has predators on it

SixFootSexy · Answer

When's the last time you were with an older man?

DrPepper12 · Answer

If their guests that are coming and going I don't see the harm or risk in seeing them independently of work.

NYlatefun · Answer

Interesting, I’m biased but age gaps are amazing. I’ve had some 20yos and early 30yos and it’s been amazing. TBH, I usually meet people in person. Go to a bar or something like that.

glennos89 · Answer

Follow me and send me a message. Maybe we can have some fun together

Benedict234 · Answer

I think it's fine (if legal), age gap doesn't bother me at all, it's fun and romantic

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Fantasies is a stretch but I can find attraction in older women

Twalli · Answer

You should be able to adjust distance on the app. When I was on Bumble I made sure my matches weren't more than an hour away

Ironic_Method · Answer

Online and apps have worked for me, just narrow your search radius.

Unit1 · Answer

Well, there was your chance. You're standing in your own way.

Anonymous · Answer

perhaps go to a local bar where you can find single older men

Iron_Man · Answer

If it hasn’t worked out in your country, what makes you think it’s gonna work out now

DerekC321 · Answer

I think it's fine, go for it. Norway is a beautiful place to fall in love, I imagine 😊

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Try a GQ cover boy handsome,71-year-old black man !!!

In_Trance · Answer

Wdym you haven't had much luck? They're literally approaching you!

Anonymous · Answer

You can move other country for better experience

jjj101010 · Answer

Hey, I worked in hotels before too and had similar offers. Happy to chat it through

Zack-Bann · Answer

30 and 50 are NOT the same level of “old”

RetroGirl02 · Answer

prøv det - gjør det - anbefales. ;)

noohair · Answer

Keep work separate, that is smart. Good Luck.

shortster · Answer

I have heard Badoo is popular in Europe and Asia.

jahaims · Answer

Go to therapy

Wise4myage · Answer

Go for it.

zombiewoof · Answer

Go girl

kareka · Answer

May i dm u?

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