I don’t know what’s wrong with me, What should I do?

[Anonymous]

After ten years of being obsessed with a man who always rejected my love and advances as soon as I stopped chasing him he starts showing interest in me and it’s giving me so much anxiety I feel overwhelmed and I don’t know what to do like I really love that man but at the same time im super uncomfortable with getting his attention now I was so used to his rejection that now I’m super anxious that he’s showing interest… is there something wrong with me? Can anyone give me advice on what I should do with this situation? I don’t want to lose him but at the same time I’m scared, im scared of having to commit if that’s what he wants I don’t think I’m ready for it….

[jojouzumaki]

He probably noticed you when you were chasing him but he might have been put off by it. Some men prefer to chase because it's in their nature to chase and accomplish.

If you’re afraid of uncertainty, you better have an open conversation with him. In that way, both parties have a choice either invest in a relationship or simply move on. Saves time for both.

[Asker]

He’s ignoring me and rejecting me again since I give him attention

[Asker]

I guess it’s just a game for him I doesn’t want me but also doesn’t want me to move on

[jojouzumaki]

he doesn’t necessarily agree with you. you just have to walk away in everything and everyone that doesn’t make you better. it is never easy but i assure you it’s worth it.

[red-lipstick-girl]

I understand your problem, you just want to chase after her, now you are bored because she is showing interest, you don't want it, clearly you need to get treatment.(dişil)

[jahaims]

You need to mature before you have a relationship if you think that is healthy or if you know it's unhealthy and do it anyways.

[In_Trance]

move tf on

[Asker]

Move on? But he’s everything I want in a ma

[Asker]

Man*