Don’t know what’s wrong with me?

Anonymous
I notice that with my “game” and personality I always come off as the accommodating nice guy. I just tend to be more easy going unless you really push my buttons. Yes I am a homebody and a creature of habit. I have a hard time doing more spontaneous things. One example I won’t just up and go to a new city. I do have friends, but not ones that I can just travel with or just do anything with (they are married so they can’t). Not to mention I have a hard time just chatting up a lady, in a way that will really make her remember me or sweep her off her feet. It’s almost like I have to really feel it to do it. If I’m not inspired then I could just care less, and this comes off as well with girls I like. Some people will say I probably don’t try hard enough. I just don’t know how to be the guy that girls will see as the guy they can see spending their life with, or even getting a date with.

PS. The reason for this is there was this girl I worked with whom I think is beautiful. Yet she wouldn’t even give me the time of day, she would talk to me about other possible dates, or try to hook me up. One point in time I thought she liked me, but as time progressed she started to act differently. Even up to the time she left I felt some jealousy. The reason I say that it’s like what is wrong with me why you don’t see me.
Don’t know what’s wrong with me?
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