Racial/color disparity with men’s dating dating preference?

[breman3106]

I’ve attempted dating a number and a variety of women. I mean since 13 years old, I’m now 38. Why is it I have more luck with bariatric women of any race/color and dark skinned black women (even those who are fit/curvy/petite) and no luck with those who are white/latina/Asian/mullato and not bariatric? I am a mullato man myself, 5’10”, 240lbs.

[mattthefatbat]

Doesn't really sound like you have a race problem if you still are having women of different races wanting to be with you thats a positive, despite them not exactly being the size you may like right now. Yknow those bariatric women of any race could always become a different size lol, but I do have a theory that similar people and things usually attract eachother. Like say If you are also a bariatric at 200 plus lbs usually people with a body type like that will also be comfortable and possibly drawn to being with that body as well. Women usually have a hard time losing weight because of possibly hormones I think, and testosterone usually makes it easier for men to lose weight. Personally I think women with muscle or a little extra meat on their bones honestly just make them look healthier and not like they starve themselves 10 hours a day

I seen a woman trans to a man and along with growing a beard she lost a lot of weight. That's why I think hormones and testosterone and estrogen levels play slightly big role in how much weight someone can gain or lose

But regardless of any of this you never know who you'll meet next may even meet someone you been dreaming of being with, you seem like you have good signs that people would like to be with you though

[breman3106]

Why do women who are black and slim want me then? Why not white, latina, Asian or mullato and slim?

[mattthefatbat]

Could be because black women are more drawn to black men, and it could be about how your personality is too

[breman3106]

Then why do obese white and latina women like me? I’m mullato, so why don’t mulatto women who are slim like me? Try to capture everything I said in the original question.

[mattthefatbat]

I understand what you're saying but with the information provided I'd say the people you're attracting are exactly the people you likely pair well with anyway, despite you not being as attracted to their body as they may be to yours. Because well it's like you said, the ones that are into you also are somewhere in the range of obese, abit like your body according to a bmi calculator. I entered the height you have 5'10 and the weight in the calculator 240lbs and it showed that you have a BMI of 34 which is thought to be in the obese range for a man and since you are malato it's likely that they like that you are because you also look similar to them in skin tone and facial features. But everyone has their own likes and interests. So it could be because the mulatto slim women you've seen or met just aren't looking to get with a mulatto man you may even find a mulatto woman who is your size that may have a interest in you.
But really honestly you have options at your hands lol lucky man really

[breman3106]

I look more similar to a mullato woman than I do to a black woman. So mullato women should be more attracted to me due to similar features than black women are. I think I’m going to stick with my theory: majority of men like non black women and non obese women. Hence, I have difficulty with the women I have difficulty with simply because they’re in higher demand. Obese women and black women are basically low hanging fruit in the eyes of society by large. by the way I’m just stating what I observe and what must be true according to the results in my dating which is a large sampling over 23 years from many different areas of the U. S.

[breman3106]

Just one more thing, and I’m not angry or trying to drive a stake in anyone’s heart or anything like that, but I also look similar to Latinos. Latinos are by and large mixed themselves, and I’ve been mistaken for Latino a lot.

My dating life is like this: 100 of each, mullato, black, and Latino. All are. BMI between 20 and 25. I will get 40 of the black women, 0 of the latina, 0 of the mulatto. I share physical features with mulatto and Latino more so than with black. Mulatto people came from people who look nothing alike. And I finally learned how to spell mulatto lol.

I have a good deal of muscle too for my BMI, but still 25% body fat I’ll admit.

[UnusualWeirdo]

Everyone is different, no women are going to be the same, you can't judge them the way you are, every women is unique and has something different to offer. Maybe don't look at race, skin color and what have you and just look at the next women you come across as; is she fun, have a good personality, does she keep up a good conversation, do you two vibe.

[breman3106]

How am I judging? What is the definition of judgment to you? Every woman is so unique, but just so happens that I try hundreds of women and none who are slim and non black EVER want me but those slim and black and those not slim regardless of race want me? Like I told the first responder, please read the question carefully. You’re missing the point entirely. Good personality, conversation, and vibe is not going to make me wanna sleep with her. Cheers.

[Nikki1989]

You shouldn't be making assumptions or judgments about people based on their race or ethnicity.

[breman3106]

What assumptions are being made? I gave you results not assumptions. Please re-read the question carefully.

[StBerryPi]

Races date who they want to. Just turns out those women like you!

[breman3106]

That’s cute but I’m looking for a reason why this “just so happens to be”.

[Anonymous]

Women preferences are black guys.

[Anonymous]

Who knows

[breman3106]

Ok fine I’ll answer it since not many on here want to be honest. Vast majority of men want slimmer (in the mid section) women with non-sub Saharan features. Thus more competition is necessary to get women who are of say a BMI under 25 and Caucasian, latina, Asian or mullato.