If a woman has a decent personality is it often the case that she’s single because she’s unattractive?

[Anonymous]

I’m 25 never been in a relationship or asked out. Tried dating sites. A nightmare experience I just met depraved men who wanted weird things. Never again. Tried it enough. No man has asked me out in real life. Nothing happens. I work full time too. Over time I’ve battled with the idea that you know what? Maybe I’m just unattractive. I have asked a guy out he wasn’t interested. I was dating a guy but he would breadcrumb me and I’m pretty sure he wasn’t even interested in me. Nothing has worked. I’m also short 5”2 and I’m not fat I don’t think. I’m 104 pounds or 48kg. maybe I’m not skinny enough I don't know.

Here’s some pictures cause I know you will ask

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I’m just gonna assume I’m ugly it’s the easiest thing to do

[es20490446e]

You are not making yourself approachable.

The woman is the most active side of courtship. She subtly makes herself available to the man she likes, and then the man digs in.

Meet people in activities you like. When you see someone that can potentially be a good candidate, just keep the interaction rolling.

Just talk, be friendly, place your body strategically, show genuine interest in them, ask them questions about things that are important to them, and touch the person in simple manners.

In summary, show simple interest in them.

[Asker]

Hm I don’t think this is gonna work. my interests are solitary in nature / nothing to do with straight men. I don’t have the temperament to flirt. I find is awfully embarrassing and cringy. I think I will die alone with my cat oh wells

[Asker]

Also I have no interest in them

[Asker]

Unless they have real interest in me

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/t-Hk7tj4cY4?si=gynNHvk1shNBZC8T

[teamvic]

Well judging from you pictures. You're not at all ugly. Like not even close

And I'll a big fan of telling the truth, even if it hurts people's feelings cause it may hurt but at least they know. But you're not ugly. So with that being the case, it has to be something else other than looks or personality. Perhaps lack of opportunities

And dating sites are just dudes truma fuck and women going for attention or free things. So that's a disaster there as you said

[teamvic]

Tryna* not truma. Whatever the hell that is

[Asker]

Hm but I’m Doing what I can do in life. Are you sure it’s not my looks? I’m tempted to just blame my looks so I can mentally move on from this ‘issue’. Especially since I live in a popular city but still nothing.. it’s hard not to just blame something tangible

[teamvic]

Are you actually trying out at you just waiting

One failed experience doesn't count. Because all guys get rejected

[Asker]

To be honest I’m not interested anymore because what’s the point. I’m just curious if this means I’m
Ugly?

[teamvic]

The only person that can truly convince you if you're ugly or not is you.
I'm just wasting time here

[Berethor]

You anonymous and you turn-down men who are interested in you, that's why you single.

[Asker]

I would never ever date a man off here. Do you think I’m insane?

[Asker]

F this shit man. I have standards thank you very much. I’ll be miserable and suicidal dating someone I don’t actually want in general. If I have to die alone with my cat so be it. I least I’m being true to myself. I’m not desperate I’m just curious hence the question

[Berethor]

Then die alone, that is your choice, but it's a lie if you say that you tried everything.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Damn I fell for the fake links 💀

Either ways to answer the question you said decent personality, wdym by that cause normally people don't settle for decent on personality, they settle for great or higher.

[UnusualWeirdo]

I'm sorry you've had it so hard, you sound really cool, just try to be a positive and you will find someone.

[UnusualWeirdo]

Id love to talk to you more if you would message me or add me

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 you think you have a decent personality. That's cute.

[Asker]

Okay I have a shit personality thanks

[paledreams]

Lol yes there's that out there in the male pop 😉