What do you do when you can see you’re giving someone you are dating the ick?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Dump them , and move on , if a partner isn’t happy to be with you and they get the ick? It’s best to give them the ick back and leave. Someone that wants to be with you isn’t going to give you an ick period , I ended a relationship with a girl that gave me the ick look when I came out of the shower with a towel wrapped around me , she was laying on my bed with this ick look on her face , and at that moment I knew she wasn’t the girl for me , I told her to get her shit and leave , a few days later her girlfriend showed up at my door and asked my why I dumped her and I told her the truth about what happened, her girlfriend said she would of done the same thing , and she said I don’t see any thing wrong with you at all , a few minutes later her and I were in my bed fucking having a blast together , She then ended her friendship with my ex and her and I started dating

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Assess the damage. Most women I end up dating would communicate thier displeasure (politely) or just refrain from saying anything and just not agree to a second date. Because the type of woman you're talking about would probably be eliminated by the conversations leading up to the date. But in the unlikely chance this were to happen I would assess the situation and determine as best I could if I'd made a mistake choosing her and if the date was worth continuing. If not I'd tell her, "I'm sorry I'm not feeling well (or something) would you mind us cutting this short"?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The only time this happened, it was a bit ironic since I think we gave each other the ick around the same time. I was turned off by how feminine he had become and he was turned off because I was losing my shape. I think I was the first to want to break things off, but I just let things continue to flow. Finally he ended things. I couldn’t have been happier since I was starting to think he was in the closet.

Account · Accepted Answer

If I am giving them the ick? That is fine I won't see them again. They have every right to get the ick and to no longer wanna see me lol.

AviatorTom · Answer

Get their attention back by asking them if they want to have sex. That will get them back to at least listening to you, and you can try to then get past the ick. First, you must tell them that you find them attractive, but the sex talk was just to get their attention... unless of course they jump at the idea. 😎

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

Well if you aren’t communicating then…you’re not dating

What do you do when you can see you’re giving someone you are dating the ick?

I was going to say that I just started to talking to a group of random people at a table once at this fancy uppity bar we were at, started buying them shots, had a good time.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm not been in that situation before... but I rather go out with someone later, after I am sure they're actually interested on that, because they know me a bit better already

so they're already "sold' on the idea, lol

ihateTaylorSwift · Answer

slowly getting annoyed  Yeah I've been there  With my ex

Miah06 · Answer

Welp for me. Since I'm gonna be me. If they got the ick we ain't gonna workout. So time to move on

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Probably just ask them if I'm doing something that bothers them. I try not to go around assuming that people have an issue with me.

genericname85 · Answer

i'd confront them. and tell them that a date is supposed to be a fun activity. if you're not having fun, go home.

LiamJHayden · Answer

End it. I prefer not wasting time on someone who isn't into me.

Passportbro5999 · Answer

The question should be what does a guy do when he’s giving the woman “icks”. The answer is he should leave because it’s obvious she’s not attracted to him and there is nothing he can do. A guy she is attracted to has no icks lol 😝

Radiate143 · Answer

I just leave. You put they are not communicating with you so just move on.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

I politely tell him I don't want it and leave him alone.

MoonFace2 · Answer

Stop seeing them.

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

If u know this why do u keep bothering them?

Anonymous · Answer

What’s the ick icky people?

Anonymous · Answer

How do you know?

Ariesman81 · Answer

Double down

What do you do when you can see you’re giving someone you are dating the ick?

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