Is he receptive to it? If not, then I wouldn't do anything except maybe snicker in anticipation of her seeing that he is, in fact, with me. I would only step in if the girl was making my partner uncomfortable by being intrusive/creepy or not backing off when he told her off.
If he looked like he was enjoying it--making no attempt to ignore or discourage her advances--or flirting back, I'd pulling him aside and ask him if he's running some kind of social experiment or if he's actually stooped low (and dumb) enough to pull that kind of thing in front of me. My next course of action--whether I stay or whether I leave--depends on his answer to that question.
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In my current relationship, I wouldn't give a shit because we have an open relationship. But in my previous ship, this happened.
I was at my friends house party and I was chilling on the couch while my boyfriend said he had to get some water. Half an hour past and my boyfriend didn't come back so I went to check on him. When I got in the kitchen I saw my boyfriend flirting with a girl while groping her ass. Long story short, I beat his ass and he came running back like he did before.
Because he was so manipulative, I took him back. I was in a very toxic relationship
I personally think that it takes two hands to clap. I cannot react if he seems to be enjoying it. The only person who can make her stop is him (ignoring her, showing her a pissed off face, basically telling her to get lost while hugging me even closer and tighter).
I would drag that hoe.
I'll start whispering in the guy's ear and gently caress him until he gets too creeped out and walks away. I'd keep telling him that if he wanted her pussy wrapped around him he would need to deal with me buried in his ass.
Gaying out on bullies will shake their foundation like nothing else.
rip my shirt apart and beat my fists on my chest and roar while running towards him.
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Sit back and watch. See how he behaves. I trust him to be faithful to me and if he is getting attention like that, why not let him have his ego stroked a bit? Beside he's walking out with You, and you can be damn sure she will see it 🤣
I would come closer to my girlfriend and hug her and make it clear she's with me
Why does every guy think that posting on the internet that you would beat another guys ass makes you look like a better person? I am well versed in MMA fighting yet i do not go around smashing peoples skulls over little shit. And even if a problem arises i first try to talk it out with the other party like a civilized human being. And as for non-stop comments on how tough you are, i have question for you all. Who is stronger, the man who starts fights and fronts like he can "kick ass", or the man who is perfectly capable of significantly hurting another person and yet holds himself back?
Laugh at how uncomfortable my husband looks. It's happened when we were out to a club once. The chick was drunk. She was pretty but it was kind of being ruined by her drunken movements and loud voice. She was just very sloppy.
I watched from a couple chairs away for a little bit but she was hanging onto his sleeve when he tried to walk away. I walked over and put my arm around him. She looked between us and didn't say anything. I showed her our rings and she let go of him. I joked with him a little and we went on with our night. The woman disappeared after that.
When my husband has any flirting he just gets away as soon as he can and tells them he's married right away. I've only felt the need to step in once.
One of his friends he went out with said that he was hit on by a 40-45 year old woman (he was 21 at the time) and when he told her he was married she asked "happily?" He responded "Very" <3 lol
My goodness some women have no morals.Well I’d expect my boyfriend to tell her to back the fuck up but if he doesn't for whatever reason I’d do one of two things.
1. Subtlety get between the two, kiss him, grab him. Bite him. Make it known he’s mine. I’d make out with him and look her in the eyes.
Or
2. Push her the fuck away and tell her to keep her hands offa him.
Or a different option I should’ve considered
3. Asked if she knew were together and if no then I’d still be kinda all over him. If yes then I’d rock her jaw.As long as she's not flirting back and walks away. Happened to me a few years ago, i went to gamestop in the mall to get my receipt i left and some guy from my old HS stepped up as soon as i left my seat at the food court and she told he asked "why are you with that guy i knew him in hs and he was a lame talking about cartoon $hit" she said " he didn't sit across the food court talking loud to his friends howd he'd would fk me and approach me after he got up to go somewhere and stare at my breast before and after he said something"
I hate when guys do thisIs my SO engaging back?
That would make all the difference. If the other person is flirting hard core but my SO is treating them like they are just talking and isn't feeding into the flirt, then I would be okay.
If my SO is flirting back and doing his own touching and flirting, shit is about to go downWell all the girls I've dated I've always had an arrangement with which has always worked well both ways. If someone is in her face she takes care of the guy herself because a woman can and usually wants to take care of the guy herself. I only jump in when she signals me to come over and he doesn't want to back down.
Smh all these "alphas" saying he'll get his was kicked or I'll break his skull! It makes me wonder how many guys are really bout it or just talking.
Besides if the person doesn't have a ring on how is anybody supposed to know your taken. How about talk about it first like adults make it know she's your girl. 9/10 that should end the flirting right thereI would step right in and grab my man's ass, wrap myself around his arm and smiley politely at the dumb bitch trying to get with him. Maybe she doesn't realize he is already with someone, but I guarantee she would find out quickly.
I don't play & I definitely don't share. If he was flirting back then he'd get his ass kicked to the curb unless he had a damn good reason for it.Well, first of all, I'd expect my partner to do his best to shut it down. As long as he's not flirting back, I don't really care all that much. But if it's really excessive, I will probably come up to them and do something to make it obvious that he's with me.
My boyfriend is quite naive, he wouldn't understand she's flirting, so when she's gone, i'd make him self-aware and he'd keep his distance with her.
If it's a lot of flirting, I'd going over and tell him "lets go have lunch, babe" or something.
If it's EXCESSIVE flirting, I'd go over & show her who's riding this lane.I don't know, too much would depend. My mood, where are we, who is this person, what is the entire situation, how does she react to it? I don't know, too many variables.
Seeing how she is inviting it or resisting it kind of will play a role too. If she is too "friendly" it could just be me cutting her lose. If she isn't loyal I could do better anyway.Depends. If he knows she’s with me then that is a personal insult to me. Besides invading her space. I would invade his personal space.
If he does not know i would let her tell him herself. If he ignores what she says then we’re back at what I said above.Since I'm not married I usually break up with the so they can be a happy couple. To some people that's dramatic, but it's how I live my life. If I get married and that happens, then I'll stop having sex with him, wanna entertain lame bitches, do it when we're not fucking.
I'd go over to my boyfriend and hold onto his arm or hand, say something like, "Hey baby, who's this?" I'd make it obvious he's taken. If she didn't get the hint by that point I'd tell her to fuck off because he isn't interested, he wouldn't flirt with another woman, especially besides the fact he can barely tell when someone is flirting with him.
I first of all look at the partner... are you accepting or allowing this undue attention? If so, I'm done with the partner. If not, this is harassment then yeah?
... I'm not going to possibly have to fight some guy if the girl is bringing it upon herself. If she can't be faithful in that circumstance then she definitely won't be faithful in most circumstances where I'm not around to do anything about it.Id be pissed! But at the same time id also see how my s/o is behaving with that person, if he is reciprocating the gestures as well or bearing with it trying to be nice or simply avoiding it. If my s/o is reciprocating , then he would be in big trouble. If he isn't id be somewhat more understanding.
What if the guy doesn't know it is flirting?
When I was married, my ex would laugh at me because sometimes we would be out and she would say "she was flirting with you". I would be like? What? all she did was say she liked my jacket. Or she would say XYZ. Whatever it was. I seriously did not think it was flirting at all. I still don't think they were. However, if she thought it was, then it really doesn't matter if the other woman was flirting or not, my ex felt it was.It would either be hot or worrying. Depends on the situation and how much of a problem it seems to be. If they are being overly pushy towards the other person i might have to pull you away to spare a harassment order, but if they are recieving and replying the same way of probably grab some popcorn.
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