i'd be walking away because had he ever allowed it, i wouldn't need him and i don't take pushovers who make excuses. that's my territory as long as he wants to be in it. then again, i don't love a pushover- but hypothetically- well, you know. bye motherfucker? lol
He knows it's expected to be respectful and would keep it in check otherwise I wouldn't be with him. However if she was relentless I'd give her that snake eyed look as a firm warning, and we'd (him) touch in an affectionate way setting the clear boundaries.
In most flirting situations, I would leave it up to my partner to tell him off (and I expect her to tell him off), unless she specifically asked for my help.
However, if he dared to lay a finger on her without permission, there would be a dent in the wall that resembled the shape of his face.
Regardless of the situation, if she entertained him, or expressed enjoyment in being flirted with, I would not only dump her on the spot, but I'd let her find her own way home.
It's a hard beast that old insecurity. Look deep inside yourself. Know you are complete and that your partner is with you not the other.. Know that you are worthy and because of this, you attracted a worthy mate. This mate of yours will attract others. So accept that your partner is attractive. Trust that if you are comfortable in your position as explosive partner they will respect this and come. back to you
I will wait to see my SO reaction to see if he will push that bitch away or what. If he doesn't, I'm ending the relationship. And I'm not interfering in any way, because it's his job to push her away and respect me.
Depends on how she's reacting to him. Of she's clearly not into it then I'll step between and tell him she's not available. If she's seems to be enjoying herself I'd simply get closer and put my arm round her, casually asking what he's whispering about. I'd probably be quite annoyed if she was enjoying it though.
Act friendly in an intimidating way. "Whatcha doin there bud?" he says whatever I say "I'm not sure if you knew, but that's my girlfriend right there" he says some shit and either fucks off or tells you to fuck off. If he tells you to fuck off, it's a fight, to all the men out there, you gotta be strong, I know most of you know this but this gender non conformity shit is fucking stupid women be beautiful men be strong idgaf
I'm not gonna blame a stranger who doesn't even know the man is taken but the man himself. The guy is in a relationship, with his girlfriend right there beside him and he's not introducing me as his girlfriend or telling her his taken, or at least not encouraging her ?
They're trying to cause a rift or argument between you and the SO later on so that the SO will think back on how cool and relaxed the unwanted toucher was. To throw them off you should touch and flirt with the person doing the shameless flirting, they'd be so confused lol
Lol. I would just start laughing. They think they can trump me. They can try. I'm sure my boyfriend would do something more mature and just tell them to back off.
I'd trust my partner to know right from wrong, and I"m not going to freak out about anything. If the touching is excessive (groping boobs, etc.), or they start making out and grinding, that's a different story. If its just something little there's no need to end the world over it.
I won't bother until the guy is determined not to leave her alone or until she gives me a signal that the guy isn't leaving and she's uncomfortable.
There's no point in being protective. If a guy wants to flirt with your girl, go ahead. You would do the same thing. If you feel the need that you have defend her from every male that attempts to talk to her, it means you are insecure.
If she's going to cheat, let her. Dump her afterwards and find someone else.
I would think if they are touching the SO, it is their partner's duty to stop the flirter or attack them. If a guy flirts with my SO (when I have one) I would beat him down, and I would expect her to do the same thing to a girl if she was touching and flirting with me.
Thats disrespectful I'm right there and you got the balls to flirt with my girl? Now if a dude is a beta he'll be like "Hey do I-I know you?" Most likely the guy trynna to steal your s/o is an Alpha so he'll show more dominant traits, probably embarrass you in front the girl, the night won't end well for you. Now if your a real man you'll be "Who tf is you?" and show this guy you ain't playing with em be ready for confrontation.
I would trust my SO to be respectful of me. Let the other person flirt all they want, but I would trust my SO to know when to cut that person off and to not flirt back.
I would hope that he would be able to handle it by telling them that he is happily married/taken and that he would pay more attention to me in front of them...
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i'd be walking away because had he ever allowed it, i wouldn't need him and i don't take pushovers who make excuses. that's my territory as long as he wants to be in it. then again, i don't love a pushover- but hypothetically- well, you know. bye motherfucker? lol
He knows it's expected to be respectful and would keep it in check otherwise I wouldn't be with him. However if she was relentless I'd give her that snake eyed look as a firm warning, and we'd (him) touch in an affectionate way setting the clear boundaries.
In most flirting situations, I would leave it up to my partner to tell him off (and I expect her to tell him off), unless she specifically asked for my help.
However, if he dared to lay a finger on her without permission, there would be a dent in the wall that resembled the shape of his face.
Regardless of the situation, if she entertained him, or expressed enjoyment in being flirted with, I would not only dump her on the spot, but I'd let her find her own way home.
It's a hard beast that old insecurity. Look deep inside yourself. Know you are complete and that your partner is with you not the other.. Know that you are worthy and because of this, you attracted a worthy mate. This mate of yours will attract others. So accept that your partner is attractive. Trust that if you are comfortable in your position as explosive partner they will respect this and come. back to you
I will wait to see my SO reaction to see if he will push that bitch away or what. If he doesn't, I'm ending the relationship. And I'm not interfering in any way, because it's his job to push her away and respect me.
Depends on how she's reacting to him.
Of she's clearly not into it then I'll step between and tell him she's not available.
If she's seems to be enjoying herself I'd simply get closer and put my arm round her, casually asking what he's whispering about.
I'd probably be quite annoyed if she was enjoying it though.
Act friendly in an intimidating way. "Whatcha doin there bud?" he says whatever I say "I'm not sure if you knew, but that's my girlfriend right there" he says some shit and either fucks off or tells you to fuck off. If he tells you to fuck off, it's a fight, to all the men out there, you gotta be strong, I know most of you know this but this gender non conformity shit is fucking stupid women be beautiful men be strong idgaf
I'm not gonna blame a stranger who doesn't even know the man is taken but the man himself. The guy is in a relationship, with his girlfriend right there beside him and he's not introducing me as his girlfriend or telling her his taken, or at least not encouraging her ?
They're trying to cause a rift or argument between you and the SO later on so that the SO will think back on how cool and relaxed the unwanted toucher was. To throw them off you should touch and flirt with the person doing the shameless flirting, they'd be so confused lol
Lol. I would just start laughing. They think they can trump me. They can try. I'm sure my boyfriend would do something more mature and just tell them to back off.
I'd smack a bitch like excuse me bitch and I drag him out lol
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Fo real id laugh really loud and say thiiiiissssss biiiiiiiithc then I'd tell her off hit her in the face and walk away lol
lol teach them not to mess with your man.
Yepp lol but In reality I'm sure he could just deal with it himself
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I'd trust my partner to know right from wrong, and I"m not going to freak out about anything. If the touching is excessive (groping boobs, etc.), or they start making out and grinding, that's a different story. If its just something little there's no need to end the world over it.
I won't bother until the guy is determined not to leave her alone or until she gives me a signal that the guy isn't leaving and she's uncomfortable.
There's no point in being protective. If a guy wants to flirt with your girl, go ahead. You would do the same thing. If you feel the need that you have defend her from every male that attempts to talk to her, it means you are insecure.
If she's going to cheat, let her. Dump her afterwards and find someone else.
I would think if they are touching the SO, it is their partner's duty to stop the flirter or attack them. If a guy flirts with my SO (when I have one) I would beat him down, and I would expect her to do the same thing to a girl if she was touching and flirting with me.
I'm coming for the violence understand?
Thats disrespectful I'm right there and you got the balls to flirt with my girl? Now if a dude is a beta he'll be like "Hey do I-I know you?" Most likely the guy trynna to steal your s/o is an Alpha so he'll show more dominant traits, probably embarrass you in front the girl, the night won't end well for you. Now if your a real man you'll be "Who tf is you?" and show this guy you ain't playing with em be ready for confrontation.
I guess I'd ask her, "so did you see the wedding ring on his finger? Well it's the mate to this one!" Leave it that!
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No touching while I’m there. Cannot tolerate any touching of any sort
I would trust my SO to be respectful of me. Let the other person flirt all they want, but I would trust my SO to know when to cut that person off and to not flirt back.
I would hope that he would be able to handle it by telling them that he is happily married/taken and that he would pay more attention to me in front of them...