How do I deal if I’m in love with a guy but I don’t think we have enough in common to hang out outside work, but we seem to be attracted to?

[Secrrtuh]

each other, but I am not into casual relations?

Gotta hand it to fellas. You all usually know what kinda relationship you want with a girl right away. Takes me ages to find out. I’m in lala romantic land.

[Nikki1989]

No common interests is a buzzkill.

[Sonora81]

You have to have common values if it will work long term.

[Trodnd]

I see. I don’t think we do because of some stuff he’s said. :(

[In_Trance]

Do you even know this guy or is this all in your head?

[Avicenna]

Spend a little more time around him

[Trodnd]

How? I love him. 😍

[Sonora81]

@Trodnd How can you love him if you have nothing in common?

[Trodnd]

@Sonora81 it must be an emotional romantic feeling inside of me and connection we have that’s emotional.

[DreamCrescent]

that’s actually good advice. instead of continuing to waste your time being frustratedly in love like you are, spend more time around him so that the infatuation wears off. you might realize him and you not sharing commonality isn’t a sustainable way forward.

or maybe your admiration will grow and he’ll reciprocate (highly unlikely and highly doubtful)

[Trodnd]

@DreamCrescent he likes me I don't know what your talking about

[DreamCrescent]

lol you’re not the asker, though. i was talking to @sonora81 regarding @Avicenna ‘s advice. That’s good advice. Dunno what you’re talking about either (it’s “you’re” by the way)

[Trodnd]

@DreamCrescent don’t care. This isn’t primary school. Maybe become a teacher.

[DreamCrescent]

@Trodnd no, thanks. i’m a scientist. teachers aren’t the only people required to be literate

[linka_pat307]

oppposite attracts