Like a movie What’s love got to do with it mentioned about walking into love rather than running into it?
The only problem is if these men BELIEVE you're in love with them. Or if they start telling you they're in love with you (and you don't feel it, but keep dating them).
But... to just go out on... like "a date". Like a regular-ass going to see a movie or out to dinner or something? No, you absolutely DO NOT have to be in love with someone to go out on a date with them.
Fact is... it's impossible to actually love someone unless you know them very well. So you should only date a guy if you feel like there's "potential" there. That's the key. Is this a guy who you are attracted to, and would like to get to know better because you're romantically interested?
Basically, a date is a chance to get to know someone better who you either "like" or who you feel like you MIGHT "like" if you knew them a bit better. So you should be "interested" in a guy to accept a date with him. He's asking you out because he DOES like you (or at least sees potential). So if you know for sure, that you're just not into this particular guy... then you should NOT go out on a date. It gives a guy false hopes. He likes you, and if you accept a date, then that says to him "you like him back too". So if you really DON'T... then you really are best to say no.
But you don't have to be in love to go on a date. You just need to be interested in getting to know them better on a romantic footing.
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Nope. Without the hormonal/chemical "in love with" distorting one's senses, it might be easier to find someone who is truly compatible and worthy of genuine love.
And you saw how that relationship turned out Kat, lol. I don’t think you have to be in love to have a first date. Love at first sight doesn’t happen for everyone, at best you could be really into each other then fall in love after the first date if anything.
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I don't think anybody really falls in love BEFORE they start dating! You don't even know the person at that point; you only have, at best, some vague ideas about who they are. That is the purpose of dating: you spend time together, get to know each other, and decide whether you could stand each other for the rest of your lives. If so, you fall in love.
As long as you are not leading them on then everything should be good. As long as you were straight-up with me then it would all work out.
If dating neccessitated being in love we'd have near no dates!
Dating is to find out if it is someone you might be into. The only real prerequisite being that they seem like they will be at the time of going on the date. Sometimes not even that.We go on dates to see if love will develop. But you should not go on dates with men you find unattractive. Accepting a date means that you could imagine a romantic relationship with that person.
“In love with” how could you be in love with someone you’re just dating? More so go on dates with people you like
Nope; not a bad idea at all. Love is like coffee or tea: instant SUCKS. Let it brew and steep and develop and age. Wine is a better analogy. :)
It's a marketplace, nothing wrong with getting full value.
I think the purpose of dating is to get to know someone better first? And then see if you love them?
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