Are men more shallow than women?

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Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

Definitely! For instance, most women pick “Don’t care” when asked about racial preferences in dating and I’m one of them. Men, on the other hand, have strong racial preferences and are even hostile to women from other races even if they have similar or even prettier features than their favourite races. I just want a hot guy and really don’t care about the race! If some below average or average guy cries about it, I don’t care. At least the features I like:tallness, slightly toned body, wide shoulders, thick and dark eyebrows, strong noses, longer and thinner faces etc. can be found among men from all races. I don’t even actively look for guys with light skin and eyes like me. I don’t even care about my babies looking different. All babies look cute to me.I like all of the following guys and if I could date similar guys, my preference would depend on the guy’s individual personality. I don’t care if an incel gets offended. It’s your problem, not mine. There are people who prefer or even fetishise certain races and they have the audacity to judge me? I never had a problem finding a hot guy for a relationship.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I always thought that my husband was a bit shallow because I'm so cute and pretty and by his fascination with my ass but then I met his exs and they were all tall, successful we'll educated women and like I'm 4ft10 married at 16 with a baby. One of them was an ex cheerleader in college, another an ex model who's now a doctor, anthother was a runner up at miss ohio. Kind made a bit anxious and jealous.

My sister says I'm shallow because I wasn't intrested in a lot great guys I was introduced to simply because they were under 6ft which because I'm so short is apparently crazy.

John86main · Accepted Answer

This is easy, women are more shallow. Just look at some of the answers from women. Women want a guy who is 6 feet, 6 pack abs, 6 figure salary, certain race (most of the time), status, swag, handsome and has game and has charm, or beard, tattoos, etc, etc, etc so many different things. Meanwhile all a man wants is a decent looking woman who is sane and will be his peace and not a financial liability. Much more easy to obtain a man, as a woman with just those requirements that they have to meet.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It really more depends on the individual. I don’t like characterizing people based off of things they can’t control. Such as being male or female. At the same time there is shallow people everywhere.

Slim57 · Answer

I think men will seem to always be shallow because they say they want a beautiful, big ass, big tit woman etc but most would honestly settle for less, and plenty of men nowadays simp way too hard for women that could care less about them. Some women's standards seem to mostly be set in stone though and they will not budge, and will also reject guys for the dumbest fucking reasons, like what shoes they wear, or what phone they use, car they drive etc. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I was watching those balloon popping dating videos things and some women pop their balloons for how people are dressed which I find pretty shallow considering their outfits are still presentable so I don't know re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

WhitneySnow · Answer

The same. You really can’t generalize by gender that way. It is true, however, that most guys will happily accept a hookup if you offer it to them, and a lot will actively try to push you into doing that, whereas most girls are looking for a relationship even if they say they’re down to hook up. This is not universal, but in my experience it is the majority.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Answer is yes , if one believes in some variant of gender essentialism to describe people. If one overestimates the capacity to know people. If one believes in generalizations. If one believes their negative experience is representative. Answer is no, for me.  Today, and tomorrow .

TalkWithoutSpeaking · Answer

No. And I know why you'd think so. Yes, we may be turned on more easily in a more explicit way (visual stuff, etc) but that does not mean we're more shallow. There's something at a different level, that I've observed and I think many would agreere-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Anonymous · Answer

Women are attracted to looks, status, money, aggression and being a "bad boy." That seems extremely shallow. Men just want a woman that isn't too fat or too abusive. That seems pretty lenient. Women are more likely to feel like they settled for the man they end up with. That seems pretty shallow.

Anonymous · Answer

when limited to just looks. men and women are roughly the same in that regard

when including money, status etc. women are way more shallow than men

but given that women have a tendency to pretend they're not as shallow as men, it's really just projection

show me a long line of average women ready to marry a homeless bum and I'll show you a long list of average men willing to bang Lizzo

Flower7 · Answer

When it comes to judging their partners by their appearance, yes.

SunnyRS · Answer

I have only went inside women and I know they are deep, I would have to try it with man to know whether they are shallow or deep but that I am not interested in trying, luv. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

Had a couple that just about took longer then me getting ready, smh

ClassicDropout · Answer

I wouldn't say more shallow, but men are more open and honest about what they want. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

d0x000 · Answer

What does shallow mean, and how do you measure it?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

From what I'm told, women are at least 4" deep but, I've seen a few take meat the size of baseball bats and not bat & eye!

TadCurious · Answer

Kez I think both sexes are equal when it comes to whether they're shallow or not.

BoobMan · Answer

Nah. "Shallow" isn't a useful term anyway. It just means "cares about something other than what I care about."

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I think men are more shallow than women are but women are definitely are catching up re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Anonymous · Answer

No, women are every bit as shallow as men, just in different ways that many women are not honest enough to acknowledge.

shortster · Answer

Probably on average about the same. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Passportbro5999 · Answer

Woman by nature are pickier and more shallow than men. This has been seen in other primates and evolutionary psychology. Woman are hypergamous this is biological.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends entirely on the person. They are both pretty shallow re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Anonymous · Answer

I'm too desperate to be picky Not shallow at all

strateguy632 · Answer

We care about beauty superficial.

RageBabe · Answer

Both can be equally shallow.

LiamJHayden · Answer

In general, yes.

TheCoffeeisHot · Answer

I wouldn't say that.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

It depends on the person … not the gender

paledreams · Answer

Yea we are 🔵

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