Boyfriend who acts like a teenager?

[TinyGirly]

I’m about to have a baby with this “child” age 20. And I’m 21. He wants to do all the cutesy high school shit like matching lock screens matching this and that. And toxic high school relationship things like checking each others phones. Not trusting me whatsoever. I’m full grown women with a baby on the way. He’s a high school dropout. What do I do? This is so annoying? Advice? Tips?

[Anonymous]

He's 20 and dude. Wtf do you expect him to act like? For reference, think of yourself around 11 or 12 years old. That's about his mental maturity level. You were probably babysitting at that age and he's still probably incapable of babysitting. So maybe even think a little younger than 11 or 12. He'll catch up to you in about 10 years though, don't worry.

[TinyGirly]

That doesn’t really make sense.

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't make sense that a 20 year old male is likely to be extremely immature? While you're posting about a 20 year old male being extremely immature. This is typical for young guys. We mature slower, but to a higher level.

Girls finish maturing way tf younger. Nature made it that way so girls could raise kids and not get them all killed.

[TinyGirly]

So I’m supposed to raise this baby alone and make sure it doesn’t get killed while a man gets to act like a child?

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty much, yeah. Force him to work though, so at least you don't have to worry about that part. And get on birth control and stop letting young losers cum inside you

[Alex-Snow]

He needs to grow up. Being a dad is a big responsibility. Are you married or living with him? Does he still want sex from you (or a bj/hj due to pregnancy?) Does he even accept the responsibility of being a future parent?

[TinyGirly]

Yes, he does. But he acts like he’s still in high school

[Anonymous]

Break up with him and sue him for child support

[slatyb]

What you do not do -- marry him.

Wait you do -- file for support.

[jahaims]

That's the consequences of picking a poor mate. You made bad choices

[Anonymous]

Have his baby, raise it alone, then blame all men for the next 40 years. Till your child is fully grown and hates you. Then get some cats and enjoy your twilight years.

[Rohaan2020]

I don’t think there’s any future with him… better leave him now

[LukeAurelin]

Talk to him. Tell how u feel and see how he reacts

[Iron_Man]

Seek out family counseling