How do I deal with the fact that I spent a lot of time thinking about a man who doesn’t think about me?

[Canttakeits]

[strateguy632]

First ask him to meet again.

But after a breakup, find the next guy, focus on finding someone else.

[Canttakeits]

Ask him to meet? Why?

[jahaims]

If you lack the introspection to become emotionally mature, try therapy.

[Abbycado]

Spent is past tense, meaning you don't do it anymore. Good for you then. Problem solved.

[boggboss]

Use it as a life lesson to not happen again