My boyfriend doesn't want to move in because he can’t play his PlayStation as much. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Context we’re both 24 and been together 3 years. We have looked at moving out but can’t due to his financial situation. Instead I’ve asked if he’d want to move in to my family home in the meantime. He has said he dosent want to as he wouldn’t be able to speak to his friends loudly at night on the PlayStation. Thoughts?

[ohsheeT]

Don't you dare move out with him not unless he can pay his half because he will manipulate you into pain everything because that PlayStation and his friends are more important than anything that's the reason why he's having financial difficulties right now because he stays up all night yelling at his friends and they're yelling at him and you don't need to hear that in the middle of the night when you're trying to sleep to go to work and you do not need to be stuck with all the bills while he sits on his bed and plays all day you need to really pay attention and don't do it because I'm telling you right now if you move out together that's what's going to happen sorry I don't like to be in the person that tells you what's going to happen but it will happen

[art84]

If he's playing PS5 at night with friends and has financial problems then tell him it's either his friends or getting a job and helping out. Plus you have family members and I bet they don't want hear him at night yelling and talking loud in the microphone till the early morning hours.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Leave this kid, she's incompetent and doesn't think about the future.

[Anonymous]

Let him play his PlayStation as much as he wants. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

Those are not the priorities of an adult. And also, it sounds like the playstation is the cause of his financial situation. I think you need to go find a mature grownup and he sure doesn't sound like one.

[Astarlessnightsky]

He is a nice guy, he doesn't want to disturb the families sleep.

[Hellraiser1984]

If I had the choice between having a girlfriend (I've never had one too many social anxiety issues) and playing PlayStation id go for spending time with you.

[jahaims]

He wants privacy. Moving into your gfs families house is weird.

[shortster]

Dump him. If PlayStation is more important than you to him then he doesn't deserve you.

[Anonymous]

Let go of his joystick.👀😆

[Anonymous]

Leave him