Hi! I've been struggling with this a lot. So I met my actual boyfriend on tinder, we are super-vibing together. Everything goes well, we never had fights, he is super loyal. But the problem is that he doesn't want to meet the parents (mine or his), and also he doesn't want to move in together. We've been together for 1 year, I don't want to move in right now, but we discussed about it and he never wants to do that. We see each other on weekends, I sleep at his place (he lives alone), and in the last month I started to come even on Friday at him and he said I m suffocating him. The thing is I always let him do whatever he wants (playing video games alone, watching TV, go out with friends) even if I m at his place, so i don t see any suffocation here. I started a conversation last week about moving together after 2--3 years and he said "I don't want to move in with anyone, it s not for me living together, i want to stay alone all life". I suggested moving only for a period, like 3-4 days and he disagreed. He wants to be with me, he loves me, but he doesn't feel good when I stay a lot with him. He had a relationship of 5 years before me, which ended because of the same thing. I love him a lot and I don't know what to do. Any idea would be so precious for me :(
Later edit: he's "emotional unavailable", as I m reading from the internet and he confirmed me. Not sure why, because his familly is awesome and his ex was fine. Any idea on that maybe?