Why is it hard to find a guy who likes me and not my body? like I want someone who I don't know treats me good and not someone who wants a quick f#ck?

[Anonymous]

Me like that dont exist

Men like that do exist your just surrounded by idiots

[Anonymous]

Same reason it's hard for guy to find women that like us and not just our attention.

Also, you probably are attracted to the guys that bestow the most attention on you. Those guys logically enough tend to be lovebombers trying to get into your pants, duh.

[Staximus]

I don't see why girls can't figure this out, it's pretty simple. Just don't have sex with a guy until you know he's not a shit bag

[Asker]

I never slept with anyone i never have just letting you know

[Asker]

i dont sleep with people just before i know them know them

[Anonymous]

Stop showing your body to men if you want to get a man who attracted to your personality. If men attracted to your body atm, it’s because only that you offer them.

[Asker]

first off im not showing my body to no one but myself second its not my fault half of the stuff i own show off a bit of something because of the size difference i will never understand and third why the hell will i offer my body to anyone what i wear or what i have should not define me

[strateguy632]

Because the song "i'm in love with the shape of you "

[Danny_dan92]

What’s wrong with it

[Asker]

with what exactly

[Danny_dan92]

Your body, like you implied in your question

[Asker]

oh that in a way there's nothing wrong with it but sometimes i get name catcalled for wearing like a tank top or something that is just on my body and its like there interested on my body and not me and it makes it hard for me to trust people

[Danny_dan92]

So now they like your body only

[Danny_dan92]

You’re flip flopping your story

[Asker]

thats what i said on the question and i quote "Why is it hard to find a guy who likes me and not my body"

[Danny_dan92]

Alright well, what’s wrong with your personality then?

[Asker]

The only wrong thing is my attitude but i know how to control it but i dont show it till like i trust you trust you but other than that there should be nothing wrong with it

[Danny_dan92]

Guys will not put up with a girl that has a short fuse and explodes easily. My sister is proof of this. She wants a man so bad, but she gets very mad over the most insignificant things. And if you tell her she does, she gets even more mad… further proving it to be true

[Asker]

i would say im that short fuse but im not i get mad like that on my period but i a lot of us girls do but like i said i dont show the attitude till i know i can like trust you

[Danny_dan92]

Right

[Asker]

yeah

[BarryLiverstone]

Why ask ano?

[Asker]

why are you asking

[BarryLiverstone]

Because so many are asking anon.

[Asker]

maybe they want to keep their identity private who knows maybe they dont trust the internet

[BarryLiverstone]

But my identity is private. I’m Barry and I live in Florida. Can you find me?

[Asker]

because your you and im me if i want to be anon i can be

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m saying you and I are still private. So using the anon feature is not trustworthy on gag. Just being helpful., trust is built over time

[Asker]

i just want certain things to be anon i just started so at the same time im looking on how this whole thing works

[BarryLiverstone]

If you are new im letting you know it’s best to use your gag username.

Regarding your question. Don’t you want a guy to like your body?

[Asker]

thanks and yes and no i want my body to be like the last thing the think about when they meet me i want them to see me or my personality not cheking how big my B**bs or my A** are

[BarryLiverstone]

If that’s the case then I would suggest you cover yourself head to toe and not show anything. But I suspect you do want to feel attractive based on how you look but you want a guy to connect with you emotionally and to learn your personality early on. Is that right?

[Asker]

correct you got it first try like i want them to think wow she's attractive but connect emotionally with me

[Asker]

and sometimes it doesn't matter what i wear there always someone looking but thats just how the world is

[BarryLiverstone]

Yup that’s normal. So when you meet guys. What are you doing to foster that connection and open yourself up to building a relationship?

[Asker]

thats the problem guys dont come up to me half of the time because of my rest face so they find me on socials or get my number from a friend

[BarryLiverstone]

So you understand the problem. Now you need to work on it so they start to approach you irl. You know what guys are thinking when they see a girl and get the signals she wants them to walk over to her right?

[Asker]

omg stop because someone told me that if a girl smiles at a guy its like a signal for them to approach us is that true?

[Asker]

no i dont know what there thinking

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok I’ll stop. If you want to talk more go ahead and follow me on here. Good luck

[Asker]

no thats a saying i didn't mean to actually stop