What good is having a personality if you are rejected before even showing it?

[Anonymous]

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s good bc that means you dodged a bullet. If someone is that shallow, you wouldn’t want them anyway

[Asker]

Rejecting someone for their looks isn't shallow though

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s incredibly shallow to reject someone based on their looks alone. No one’s saying you can’t or shouldn’t be attracted to someone sexually based off of their appearance, but physical attraction is not the same as sexual attraction, and if looks are that high if a priority above every other facet that a balance is impossible with a “lower” standard of appearance, then it’s shallow.

[Asker]

Looks start the initial attraction for most people. What other information do people have other than looks upon meeting someone

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Exactly my point

[Abbycado]

Would you rather be known as the guy with the terrible personality?

[Asker]

Wouldn't matter

[Abbycado]

Whoa as me, huh?

[Asker]

In the dating world it wouldn't matter

[Ms_Facesitter]

It'll make you bounce back after failure.

[Asker]

What?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yep good personality, a spine to not give up after rejection and move on to the next.

[Asker]

After so many rejections, you just get tired and focus on other stuff instead of trying to pursue women

[Ms_Facesitter]

Focusing on yourself is actually one of the best things you can do.

[bananathunder]

so... ugly?

[Asker]

Yeah guess so.