Is this what sayings boiled down too?

Honestly as a guy i genuinely don’t think you can be a romantic and be kind if you wanna date and get the girls you want.

When I was younger in highschool and first starting to date I tackled it by copying cool guys I saw on tv that got girls. But I don't know if I’m just hyper den when it comes to emotions especially my own but it felt not good I felt like I wasn’t myself.

I’m a lover a hopeless romantic and a nice and forgiving person that’s just who I am I feel like I can’t be that if I want to win that or I be alone forever. I try so hard to self improve and work on myself but it feels like it goes unnoticed by woman. You always hear just work on yourself and the right one will come.

No one wants to gimme the time a day why would the quote in quote right one be different I feel like that’s unrealistic but maybe we say it cause that’s what we wanna believe. Dating sucks I don't know what’s to do trying to change who I am or be something I’m not in a fundamental level why is that the right way to do things.
Is this what sayings boiled down too?
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