Would you care if a person from the opposite sex you found physically unattractive thought the same thing about you and your looks?

[Anonymous]

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1 y

I care a lot more about what men I find attractive think about my looks.

I don’t want to date men I find physically unattractive. If they didn’t think I was pretty I think that would be good because they would probably less likely to attempt to flirt with me. I would not really care if a man I’m not physically attracted to didn’t like my looks. The feeling is mutual

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1 y

I likely would not cry but if a guy I find attractive didn’t think I was pretty I think I would be a bit upset.
I wouldn’t be angry at him either as long as he doesn’t go around calling me ugly or not pretty unsolicited.
Some people are a bit delusional but I think I can usually tell whether a guy finds me attractive or not by the way he acts around me without him directly saying to me that he thinks I am pretty or not

[ohsheeT]

I have never really found anybody unattractive I mean I see and I feel things deeper than most people and I look on the inside of them first see their heart who they are how kind they are how beautiful they are on the inside the outside is just all an extra bonus.. . And I look at things in detail I look at people in detail so I mean I can always find something beautiful about them.

And if somebody didn't find me attractive or didn't like me I mean that's okay that's cool that's their prerogative I'm not going to really worry about it because it really means nothing to me I know who I am and I know I like myself and that's all. That really counts because the person that doesn't like me that's just a moment in time and then probably out of my life anyway so it doesn't really matter to me

[ohsheeT]

With your update you have to understand the beauty is not always on the outside there's a beauty on the inside that is where true beauty comes from that's what makes the outside radiate and just glow. .
When I look at a girl I look at her from the inside out I want to know who she is on the inside first because that is her true self the outside is just all an extra bonus but who you are on the inside is what makes the outside glow

[JestAJester]

Only the people I care about are the ones whos opinion I care about

[Meisdipa]

Used to care back then

You're entitled to have an opinion about me, doesn't mean that's right.

But I understand it's subjective and not too concerned about how others think

[silvermoon84]

Not really, no. I would probably just think “ok cool. Whatever” and just go on my way. If I’m not attracted to him, why care if he’s attracted to me or not?

[Summeroflove]

Well the truth is people judge no matter what you do. Focus on who doesn’t like you and just be glad the turds are leaving you alone

[D_Bone_Steak]

Not really. They talk shit all the time. But they're usually very unattractive people themselves. Like on this site for instance... I have my ways of tracking down their facebook, instas, and so on and getting a good look at who they are off of g@g. They're not attractive themselves. If it's a woman, I find that I'm much better looking than their men. I'm not trying to talk shit, I'm just saying what I see.

I will go so far as to say that the actually good-looking people on this site... they don't talk shit like the ugly people do. It's almost always 100% some ugly fuck that just looks like they have a venereal disease that wants to talk shit. So no... I can't really get offended by them because they look like they're hooked on drugs and shit or have overeating disorders.

[Anonymous]

No. When I was younger, yeah. But not anymore. Because I'm old enough now to know that what women find attractive makes NO logical sense. There are a lot of ugly and fat women that do not find me attractive. On the flipside there are many attractive women that have absolutely no reason to find me attractive who have.

This is why I'm not really phased by anything a woman says or does anymore. Because most of them are plotting. Most of what most say are done as a multistage plan. So nothing a woman says do i give a whole lot of weight to anymore.

[WhiteSteve]

I mean, I think it’d sting less since I wasn’t interested anyway. But at the same time…. we all have the same eyes, whether beautiful, ugly, or in between. So a rating of “unattractive” holds the same absolute value no matter who it comes from, in terms of honesty of assessment. I think I’d rather everyone just thought I looked good, haha. But at the end of the day, I don’t really take it too much to heart either way. I’m not going to be for everyone.

[Zack-Bann]

I wouldn’t care what a stranger thinks in a sense that I wouldn’t be offended or try to prove anything to her


But if multiple strangers are finding me unattractive then I would stop to consider why and work to improve myself for myself.


I won’t live in denial assuming im attractive just because my mother says so.


There’s a case to be made for getting feedback from unbiased third parties to continue improving

[molonski2]

It wouldn't matter , because neither of us in attracted , could not care less its not an issue.

[molonski2]

YOUR UPDATE ; not relevant to the original question , it was if the guy DID NOT find you attractive.

[Asker]

Yes, I know my first original question was about somebody from the opposite sex NOT finding you attractive

i just wanted to say my feelings about how I would feel if a guy I find physically attractive didn’t feel the same way about me

[molonski2]

Completely DIFFERENT Ms Asker.

[Chillguy53]

Yes because i can’t believe a woman would have the audacity to call me ugly when she looks like a circus clown

[Anonymous]

I'm asexual but I'm vain. I like being seen as sexually desirable

[David5668]

Why should I-it’s a free world

[Wise4myage]

No, It is what it is.

[Staximus]

Why would anybody care about that

[tzdc21]

Nope

[Anonymous]

No..

[Anonymous]

Not really.