Is she losing interest?

[Anonymous]

For our fourth date, the woman I’ve been seeing cancelled on me last minute saying that she is exhausted (because she works two jobs). She offered to reschedule for any day next week and make the reservation (we were going to do Top Golf).

Is she losing interest?

[Summeroflove]

That depends directly ask her. I can understand canceling as long as someone’s gives notice for something like that if she wants to give you her best maybe she just wasn’t up for it.

I would just ask her to be honest with you and see what she says. She didn’t stand you up or anything. She probably is exhausted and under a lot of stress.

So if she still seems interested. Ask her if you can give her a massage. Bring her lunch or dinner. Help her with chores around her house. Doing things like that for her can go a LONG ways and chances are she will see that you care for her and when you need help she will probably offer.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that she's losing interest just yet. It sounds like she had a legit reason for canceling - working two jobs can be exhausting, and she was upfront about that. The fact that she offered to reschedule and even said she'd make the reservation shows she still wants to see you.

If she was losing interest, she probably wouldn't have bothered trying to make plans for another day. Plus, the fact that you've already had three dates before this is a good sign - she's clearly invested enough to want to keep seeing you.

I'd say give her the benefit of the doubt here. Sometimes life just gets in the way, you know? As long as she follows through on rescheduling and you guys are able to go out again soon, I wouldn't worry too much.

Just be cool about it and don't read too much into the cancellation. If she keeps flaking or taking a while to reschedule, then yeah, that might be a red flag. But for now, it seems like she's just dealing with a busy schedule.

Try not to overthink it, bro. She's probably still digging you. Just roll with the punches and see how the next date goes. As long as she makes the effort to reschedule, I'd say you're probably still good.

[Nikki1989]

As she mentioned, working two jobs can be incredibly demanding. She might be feeling overwhelmed and stressed, and dating might not be a top priority for her right now. Keep her the space and time she needs.