Is she losing interest or not? And if she is, why?

[Anonymous]

Short summary of the situation.
met a girl in tinder… she said hi and we texted a little… took it to snapchat… met for a date… she showed excitement before the date… the date went really well (aka a short lunch became 6h long).
she thanked for the date when we left. I hadn’t even got home when i got a snap saying “thanks again” and then another snap asking when I was free next time. Unfortunately we couldn’t set a date cause she didn’t know her schedule yet for the times were I am free.

She snaped both a “goodnight sleep tight” and a “good morning”… basically all the day after the date she was very active in sending me snaps… she knows why and respects that I can’t answer right away when working. But then suddenly I was left on opened… no big deal… it wasn’t a question or anything like that… just a reaction.

And now another day after her replies was a little blunt compared to before. However she still replied with selfies and not just a pic of a table or anything like that… and she wasn’t delaying her replies either (i mean being active but choosing not to read or reply).

Is she losing interest or what? And why? Why did I do wrong?

[ManOnFire]

Either something is going on with her personal life that could be somewhat stressful or consuming, but she still wants to stay consistent and reply to the best of her ability, or she could be losing interest. It's still early in the situation to really tell so I would just give it some more back and forth and see what happens.

[Asker]

As an update:
Just yesterday she reached out to me in the afternoon asking about my day, and told me she was free a day next week so if I also were free we could do something… unfortunately I wasn’t free so she replied with “to bad, but we’ll find a day”.
There wasn’t a clear excitement in her writing, but the meaning behind her writing was still good… so I guess it’s a good sign.

I mean she listed “better in real life” in her tinder profile, so I guess that’s really the case.
Cause there’s no delay in her responses or anything like that… I’m quite active on snapchat so I can see all my snap-friends on the map frequently and there you can see their last time they were online… and if there have been a few hours since I sent her something she hasn’t been online in that time but as soon as she comes online she’ll open my snap and respond right away (if a reply is needed or she feels like it). Not even my Ex did that… not even I do that all the time.

So I guess it’s still good

[ManOnFire]

Hmmmm. Now that I know she's on Tinder I'm not so sure what to think. Like not sure if she decided to reach out to you again now because maybe she was chatting with another guy and it didn't work out, or she just had a lot going on.

[Asker]

Naah thats not very likely. she hasn’t been online on tinder since before our date because Tinder says she’s about 80km away (in her hometown) and she hasn’t been there since we last chatted on tinder and changed platform to snapchat.

And I mean, she never really stopped “chatting” but just cooled down a little. Like the day before the date, the day of the date and the day after the date she was almost “annoying” with how much she sent me and then she cooled down to how she was like two days before the date or something. And I know that when she is working she can’t use her phone, just like I can’t do when I work and we both have shown respect and understanding for that.

[ManOnFire]

Then I guess she must've had something going on for a minute. Hopefully it continues to work out.

[Anonymous]

Tinder, Text, Snapchat.

It went from bad to worse. 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

I think you need to read again since you obviously didn’t understand anything.

Snapchat is the no.1 communication platform for people our age to use when not in the same room and as any human with a brain knows you can’t always be in the same room… or same town…