Why I am losing interest in my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I got this girl to trying 6 months, I have been playing hard to get her attention, now she is my girlfriend, but now I am losing interest in her. We never have had sex, I don't know why I am ignoring her, she text me, sometimes I reply, sometimes I don't. Sometimes she get mad due to my rude behavior, why I am doing like that?

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[Anonymous]

I think you were chasing her or dating her six months because you wanted to get to know. She was attracted to you in way but after you get to know her personality, you find it unappealling or unattractive as it used to be. THis is very common because if everyone man stick with the girl he dated first day and stay up there none relationships would have ended nor will have there been divorce, break ups. We chase one another the impressions and persona of the person is exposed, it becomes normal to us and we might even find their persona conflicts with ours. Therefore, I think there are otherways you can still improve your relationship if you want. Otherwise, don't waste her time, don't bother yourself feeling guilt or stucked, (unable to date with other local girls).

Indeed, may remaind you that dating is all about experiment, marriage is about experiment, life in and out of itself is about experiment. You try things out, they work or don't. If things work as you planned or expected, than we proceed to enjoy. Othewise, we move the next level. No hardships. End your relationship comfortable way, maybe go to coffe shop, or dinner and talk openly about your feelings towards her. Why you were interesting in her, why you are not interesting in her now or have been ignoring her. She is an adult person and perhaps also confused why you are ignoring so telling her the truth and giving her the chance to express herself about relationship is very good way to end it or enrich it.

People sometimes feel that if they feel disinteresting in continuing relationship, there is no way to improve and narrowly focus on bothersome issues rather than finding ways to improve. YOu already have this girl so try your past to communicate openly with so you can improve your relationship instead of looking for fresh one. YOu personally know yourself, what happen, her, and the whole situation to communicate because communication is the essence of relationship and if you don't contribute to communicating her you are probably the one hurting and letting her down. Make a move to improve or end your relationship with this girl...

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[missymoo]

coz the chase is no longer their. trust me I was the same as you with my ex boyfriend, because he was the one who was always calling texting etc but then one day he said he was sick of trying, so now I'm the one jumping through hoops trying to get him back. its not fun. if you want her don't do that just text her too, and make communication equal on both sides, because you will regret it when she's gone.