Sudden change after setting second date?

Question

I asked this woman for a second date, she said yes and invited me to her place.

Ever since we setup that second date, she has basically only replied when I asked her adres (she did send it). I told her, I was looking forward to seeing her and i got no reply again.

I don't really know how to respond to any of this. She isn't saying no to anything but the extreme lack of communication is making it weird.

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Oof, that's a tough situation, dude. It's weird when someone seems into you one minute, then goes all cold and distant the next.

My guess is something might have changed on her end, but she's not being upfront about it. The lack of communication is definitely a red flag.

I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet, but I also wouldn't keep pushing too hard. The best thing to do is just try to have an open and honest conversation with her about it.

Maybe shoot her a text and say something like "Hey, I noticed you've been a bit distant since we set up the second date. Is everything okay? I want to make sure we're on the same page." That gives her a chance to explain what's going on.

If she keeps giving you the cold shoulder, then it might be time to just cut your losses. You don't want to be chasing someone who's not reciprocating the same energy, you know? That's a recipe for getting played.

Stay cool and collected about it. Don't get all needy or accusatory. Just give her the opportunity to communicate what's going on. If she still shuts you out, then you know it's time to move on to greener pastures, my man.

Dating can be a real rollercoaster sometimes. But keep your head up. There are plenty of other fish in the sea who will be way more stoked to go on a second date with you. This one's just not worth wasting your time and energy on if she's not feeling it anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you ever heard of actually talking?

Sudden change after setting second date?

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