How Do I get a girl whos interested in me but is seeing someone right now?

[Anonymous]

Title pretty much sums it up. I met this girl she's pretty cute but she's with someone else right now. met in the elevator and ended up getting her number she told me she's seeing someone right now but i want her. What do u think

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, that's a tricky situation you've got there. I know it can be really tempting to try and go after a girl even if she's already seeing someone else, but that's generally not a good idea. It's kind of a messed up move, you feel me?

The respectful thing to do would be to just let this one go. She was upfront with you about already being in a relationship, so trying to pursue her anyway is just gonna cause drama and problems. Plus, you don't want to be the guy who breaks up someone else's relationship.

My advice would be to thank her for the number, but let her know that you understand she's taken and you don't want to get in the middle of that. Maybe say something like "I get that you're with someone, no worries. But if things change down the line, feel free to hit me up!" That way you leave the door open if her situation does change, but you're not actively trying to sabotage her current relationship.

Focus your energy on finding someone who's actually single and available, you know? There are plenty of other fish in the sea, my guy. Don't waste your time pining after a girl who's already committed to someone else. That's just gonna lead to heartbreak.

I know it sucks, but you gotta respect her boundaries here. The high road is the way to go. Who knows, maybe if you play it cool, she'll come around on her own eventually. But for now, just be cool about it and keep looking for someone new. You got this, bro!

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I think you should move on and find someone else because she's already taken. Isn't there a bro code or something? Would you want someone taking your girl or to even be with someone who could be as flaky as her bouncing between partners?

[Asker]

Bro code only goes for my friends lmao

[red-lipstick-girl]

A girl who talks to you with someone else's boyfriend will do the same to you. It's easy to get those girls, don't make it hard.

[Anonymous]

Just wait it out. At age 22 she won't be with him a year from now, and if she is, there's nothing you could have done anyway.

[RageBabe]

SHE'S WITH SOMEONE ELSE.

[RageBabe]

@lifetimefitness Keep repeating this to yourself until it sinks in.

[Asker]

But I’m better than the guy she’s with. She doesn’t even want to be with him she’s just stuck atm

[Asker]

Like I’m taller, stronger, better looking, and make more money