How do I get this girl I like?

[BigBoyRoy]

So there's this girl (16F) at school I (17M) like a lot, she used to say hi to me when I walked past her a lot years ago but since then she's been rather quiet around me, but I've liked her for more than a year now and I notice her and her friend staring a lot at me and sometimes talking about me, so I've been trying a lot to talk to her during school but it's always really hard to and I always get really scared, but a few weeks ago when the school day ended mostly everyone at school left and (I usually walk home) I walked past her and then she came up to me and asked if I needed a ride home, it was kinda strange at first she asked me if I needed a ride home because she always sees me walking home so I said yeah od course, and it was kinda strange at first when she walked up to me she asked me if I was chris, which is kinda strange since she's always known my name and when she was taking me home she even remembered me from classes we had years and years ago so that was kinda odd and when I brought up how she used to say hi to me she laughed and said she was just really goofy, but anyways we talked a lot on the ride home then when she dropped me off she even gave me her phone number in case I needed another ride, and the very next day right when classes ended she texted me asking if I needed another ride and I said yes again of course so she took me home again and it was great she's really nice to me and everything but now it's the weekend and now that I don't have to talk to her and make friends with her anymore I wanna eventually try to date her but I don't know how or when i should, and is it bad that I dont drive or that she has to take me home, anyways leave your comments below thanks.

[Tara016]

Hello,
Frankly, Chris, this girl seems to like you more than a friend.
If you were just a friend to her, she wouldn't have gave you her phone number that soon or invited you for a ride home with her a second time.
I advise asking her out for there seems to be high chances for her to say yes.
And don't worry about the driving part, I'm pretty sure if that was a problem, she would have stayed away and wouldn't have gave you her number (many teen girls usually have this criteria about a guy having a driving license and owning a car).
I believe she doesn't mind that you don't have a car and pretty sure she's aware of that for she sees you walking home from school.
Call her (or text her) and meet her in a place to eat, go for a walk, chat, she seems to want to know you and according to your description, she appears to be a lovely lady so by all means go for it.
You two seem to be having a good start seing the probable mutuality between you two.
Best of luck.

[Popcornthedog]

Hey, it sounds like your crush might have a thing for you. She totally went out of her way to give you a ride and was probably trying to get closer to you and now she probably wants you to make a move. She is probably just as scared as you are even if she isn’t showing it. I would reach out to her on text more often and make conversation. What’s the worst that could happen. I know it’s scary but ask her to hangout and give her a ride this time. Girls will fall for you if you show them that you care. Good luck!

[TheFlak38]

if you have to struggle to get the girl you like then you're playing a rigged game. Give up.

[slatyb]

She's dying to get with you. Invite her literally anywhere.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Because you know her on a casual basis you can’t make a good first impression. But that’s ok. Make a great second impression. Girls like guys who are confident. That’s why you see so many hot girls with losers. They may be losers but they’re confident about being a loser. So be confident in who you are. Show her the best side of you.
But don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t work. In other words don’t hang your hat on this one girl. So many people make that mistake and it ends in tragedy.

[Anonymous]

As per the details given. She seems to be into you. She literally went out of her way to give you rides home + giving you her number was a big sign indicating that she wants you to text her. So now its your turn to make your move, definitely text her and ask for another ride, or maybe you can take her for a ride for a change (if you have your driver’s license). But definitely don’t waste time and make your move, she has already done hers.


Keep us updated :)

[Anonymous]

Sounds like the start of something :), so relax and get to know her better. She gave you her number, so maybe start a conversation on text, if you prefer face to face ask if she wants to get together this weekend, doing something you like or just go and have an ice cream and chill.

[Siren777]

She has already made a move on you so it's safe to ask her out.

[ushagomez]

Just text her and ask her if there’s any chance of a ride. She is clearly sending you a signal that she is interested in becoming your friend.

[A_Bell]

Ask her to do something together, flirt with her, or do something or she'll friend zone you eventually after being your ride buddy.

[Sarahr123]

You’re a baby, focus on your studies. You have your whole life to get into relationships.

[FlySwimmer]

Yeh maybe he has his whole life, but why not now? Highschool can be a fun time as long as you let it be one :) my sister had a fun time in Highschool and now runs her own multimillion dallied business (she is 24) and I have run but I still have a 4.0 gpa and have two all American times in swimming (200 IM, and 100 Fly) personally I don’t see the issue with aging fun as long as you get decent grades :) lemme know what I am doing wrong, by the way I am also in debate another extra curricular activity, but I haven’t had any major success in it and don’t plan to do it for more than a hobby..

[FlySwimmer]

Dollar not dallied oops😂

[rachel776]

pay attention to another girl she knows

[BigBoyRoy]

How does this help?

[rachel776]

she will jump on you to get your attention back