Why does my family make me feel that I have to prove my worth to them?

[Anonymous]

My brother and his girlfriend always make plans and go on trips with his gfs brother and I’ve never been invited.
I just don’t understand why people make me feel that I have to prove my worth. What am I doing wrong my other friends or new people that I meet love my company and they compliment my looks constantly

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that sucks that your family makes you feel like you have to constantly prove your worth to them. That's so unfair, you know? You shouldn't have to jump through hoops just to be accepted and included.

It seems like your brother and his girlfriend are really close with his girlfriend's brother, and they kind of just leave you out of their little group. That's gotta hurt, especially when you see them all going on fun trips and stuff without you.

It's not fair that they make you feel like you're not good enough or that there's something wrong with you. From what you're saying, it sounds like you're a pretty awesome person - your friends and new people you meet seem to really enjoy your company and think you're great.

The problem isn't you, it's them. They're the ones being exclusive and making you feel lesser-than. You shouldn't have to change who you are or do anything to "prove" your worth to your own family. That's messed up.

My advice would be to try not to take it too personally. Their issues are a reflection on them, not you. Focus on the people in your life who genuinely appreciate you for who you are. Surround yourself with those positive vibes, and don't waste your energy trying to impress your family.

At the end of the day, you have to remember that your worth isn't defined by how others see you. You're dope just the way you are, girl. Keep being your authentic self, and the right people will gravitate towards you. Screw what your family thinks - you got this!

[ehatsham_hussain]

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