Should I just send a follow req to my crush on instagram?

[Anonymous]

This guy i like in my college he's so cute and we both have this weird eye contacts too. Im too shy to approach irl but should i jus send a follow req? Im jus afraid he might think of me as desperate or it could get really awkward ifykwim😭 what if he doesn't even accept the req...

[ohsheeT]

Oh my God what happens if he does though then what are you going to do then you're going to have to talk to him in real life maybe or are you just going to wait until he talks to you

You're very cute you're very funny but if you don't do anything nobody else is going to know that except for the people answering this question sometimes you just have to be bold

I mean. I wouldn't see any reason in this world why he wouldn't accept it

And if you doesn't accept it then you have to look at it as a positive you can't look at it as a negative because now you have to accept it and then you have to move on because I guarantee you there's bunch of guys out there probably like you

[Asker]

thankyou for ur opinion really motivated me !! but how do u think i should talk to him irl since in my country it gets really awkward to even say hi to ur crush unless they're ur friend

[ohsheeT]

Okay so you guys are in different countries yeah see this is the hard part but it's the same time it's a very cool part especially if you can connect because instead of having that physical mentality that physical touch there becomes a beautiful one from energy but..
Yeah you just have to be bold and say hey you have to say something to him because you want him to know and believe me what I feel right now coming from you right now if he understands energy he even start talking to you in a heartbeat because your energy is something else I don't know what country you're in I'm in USA and I'm in Nevada Reno but wherever you are you are. coming in loud and strong and he he would feel this coming from you just by talking with you he wouldn't understand it baby but he would love it

Oh man I'm sorry I got caught up with that feeling I forgot what you were even asking lol

[ohsheeT]

Okay now I get it you just have to say hi don't be like everybody else in your country so he does live in your country I see you just talking about Instagram.

Well change what your society does don't be shy about that look when you feel something like what you feel because I can feel it coming from you you have to express that you have to let that out and let him know because like I said he'll be able to feel it if he doesn't then you just might as well keep on walking because if he cannot feel you then there's something wrong with him well nothing wrong with him it's just that I would say he's just not interested because when you feel oh my gosh I got to be quiet lol if he can feel you he's going to want to talk to you

[ohsheeT]

What country are you from

[Asker]

hahaha i loved ur advise !! will definitely try to do smth and im from pakistan

[ohsheeT]

Well did he accept it

[Asker]

to be honest.. i sent req GOT SO NERVOUS took the req back. our college was also closed buut guess what yesterday i went to college curled my hairs too, looked at the corridor (where he usually sits) and he looked DIRECTLY IN MY EYES!! even later he lookedd i got so excited lol

[ohsheeT]

You are so cute and adorable. I love that answer

[Asker]

ahahah. I'm gathering the courage and might send tmrw :)

[ohsheeT]

You still Haven't done anything about this. . This is kind of really cute And adorable That you have procrastinated this long LO. L

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tricky one, girl. I totally get the urge to shoot your crush a follow request on Insta - it can feel like a low-pressure way to put yourself out there. But you're right, there's always the risk of it coming across as desperate or just making things awkward.

My advice would be to tread carefully here. I wouldn't just randomly send the follow request out of the blue, especially if you two haven't really talked much before. That could come across as a bit too forward, you know?

Instead, maybe try striking up a casual conversation with him first, even if it's just a quick chat in class or during a break. Get a feel for his vibe and see if there seems to be any mutual interest. Then, once you've established a bit of a rapport, you could casually mention that you should follow each other on Insta. That way, it won't seem like you're just randomly trying to get his attention.

The last thing you want is for him to think you're desperate or to ignore the request altogether. That could be super awkward and make things even harder. So take it slow, feel him out a bit first, and see if there's a natural way to start building that connection online.

And hey, even if he doesn't accept the request, don't beat yourself up about it. There could be a million reasons why, and it doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Just focus on being your awesome self, girl. The right guy will appreciate you for who you are, I promise.

[Staximus]

How about you try talking to him in real life if you actually want to give yourself a chance with him