Will a guy wait after marriage?

[Anonymous]

YES

NO

IMPOSSIBLE

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Wait until marriage to have sex

[ohsheeT]

It depends on how much he loves you it depends on a lot of things

The thing about doing that is you wait all this time and then you finally get married and you have sex and let's say you were just one of those people that didn't like sex didn't enjoy it for some reason all that time that you put into it and if that happened I'm sure he would be disappointed but when you have sex and you make love there is a chemistry of bonds that is created and it can be so very very hot or it can just be blah depending on both people and what your desires are

I mean it can be done but before I would commit to that I would have to make a deal with you and that would be while we're even waiting to see if we're even compatible in every other situation in life I would want to make out because I have all kinds of passion and desire and I like to please so that would be part of the deal the other part of the deal would be we would have to make out and do a few test runs like putting you on top of me holding your hips sliding you back and forth and slow motion but the one rule would be no penetration I mean just to get down and dirty and hot and passionate and take it just about right there but without penetration to see if that. That bond is reachable but then if we did that the next question would be could you wait because that's kind of a mean trick and roundabout way because I know for a fact that you have to have some sort of desire and that would be such a total turn on to you that you would probably. Want to get married the next day LOL

I mean I would love to say that I could do it but that would be. A lie a big lie

If I absolutely had to do it I could but I only know if I'd want to like I said he has to be totally in love and he has to have so much respect for you it's unreal which you should have that anyway that about the only way that I could do it is like what I said has that premarital foreplay bonding arrangement LOL

[BCRanger10]

I'm assuming you mean "wait until after marriage to have sex", correct? If so, quite possibly. I waited until I got married, and that was when I was 31.

Here's the key though. I wasn't just "willing" to wait. I was firmly, thoroughly, and wholeheartedly committed to it. I had been since I was a teenager.

If a guy is willing to wait, that's fine, but you'd be better off finding a like-minded man on the matter. You would do well to carefully evaluate yourself, what you believe about sex, and why you believe as you do.

[IslaTheWitch]

anyone can... but deciding on marriage not knowing if you are physically compatible is... irresponsible...

[4ngelic]

98% of dudes wouldn't do that. only very christian guys might

[RandomUser1000]

Some will, some won't.

In general I think religious guys are more likely to be willing or wanting to wait until marriage then non religious guys.
But it's individual.

If that's what you want, I think you need to say that.
Maybe you can have a first date without talking about it.
But most guys would probably not want to wait months to find out.

[HungTexan]

Some will wait, but why would you? Are you both virgins (even worse)? No sex is not healthy!

[Abbycado]

Wait for what?

[Asker]

To have sex

[Abbycado]

Some will and others won't, like anything in life.

[LazerBean]

Some will and some won't. Just depends on the guy

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys will. If he won’t he’s not the one.

[zagor]

Some will. Many won't.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Wait or what? Grub?

[incorrected]

Wait for what?

[Anonymous]

Doubtful but it can happen.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It happens yea