Boyfriend worried I’ll change after getting on birth control?

[Anonymous]

Basically what the title says. I’m planing to get on bc when we start being intimate but he’s worried I’ll change and not like him anymore is this something that happens what should I do?

[ohsheeT]

No it's not what happens he needs to get a little bit more confidence in himself..

He thinks just because you are protected you're going to go out and have sex with other guys

So you have to let him know is wait a minute you have condoms so can I say the same thing about you

It's a form of manipulation at the same time he has no confidence or it's just a game that he's playing you just keep doing what you're doing if you love him you need to show him each and every day do your part and if he does his part everything should work out if you can't do his part then you'll probably walk on

[bowenw]

Tell him to stop worrying. If you stop liking him it won't have anything to do with bc.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Abbycado]

I had some hormonal changes in the beginning. They subsided. If you feel like you changed then you can try a different type. Some girls have to go through a few to find the right one.

[Runnerdude187]

Do you like not having to use condoms

[Asker]

Thank you so much I’ll mention it to him

[Flower7]

What he’s saying is not true. Plus, you would change even more from pregnancy so…

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true

[dean53AU]

Well to bad for him, he has take you the way you are and get use to it, if any changes happen at all.
No risk of unwanted pregnancy for now.

[Valdemort]

If that's an issue for him, tell him to get a vasectomy.

[Caroline91]

That boy seriously needs to find something else to worry about! lol

[msc545]

With the user name you picked here, he is totally right to be worried.

[Asker]

Haha thanks it’s such a great username right!!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why does he think that? What did you do to make him feel that way

[Asker]

Nothing I know of he sent me a reel of a girl who broke up with her boyfriend when getting off bc saying that she couldn’t stand her boyfriend after

[Bklynbadboy12]

Have you tried to reassure him that you won't do that

[Asker]

Yeah multiple times but he keeps telling me I can promise that

[glennos89]

Ask him to get a vasectomy

[Ifdyourmom]

B. C. can make some women hormonal, but no

[Anonymous]

If he's that insecure he needs to work on himself.

[zombiewoof]

What changes does he fear

[zombiewoof]

You have an interesting name

[Asker]

That it’ll alter my hormones and change the person I am I think

[Asker]

And ik lol I’ll get around to changing it eventually

[zombiewoof]

Dr would probably change pills if they did that

[zombiewoof]

Why change your name,

[Asker]

Okay I’m glad

[Asker]

Causes a lot of biases on here when I ask for advice

[zombiewoof]

they are either narrow minded or have no sense of humor

[Asker]

lol true I guess