Why would a girl call herself a homebody and then flip at the end of a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Like being a more introverted individual this was an appealing aspect because someone who was more extroverted i probably would let have the courage to talk to. At the end of the relationship she goes your more of a homebody and I like to go out I was shocked like was this whole relationship based on lies

[virtualwasp]

She was fake to get you into a relationship with her. She's a chameleon who will try to be what ever the guy she likes goes for. I have seen this so many times with guys who 'like' me and a woman likes him, so she starts dressing and acting like me to get him. Total fraud.

[Anonymous]

So, you want us to read someone’s mind that we don’t know. If you can’t figure it out, how will we?

[Asker]

I guess I’m just trying to figure out if it was all pretend and essentially the whole relationship was faked

[DreamCrescent]

i think i’ve been through something similar. i don’t know the gritty details of your relationship but i’ll share my experience.

i am very much introverted. i’d prefer being at home to going out any day of the week any time of the day. when i met my ex i didn’t realize how “easy” he perceived a relationship with me was going to be. i was bored sick to death. he wouldn’t go on a hike with me, he wouldn’t go to the farmers market, he wouldn’t pursue a hobby. i worked long hours and he just wanted to sleep. when weekends came around i started to resent him staying in bed and not doing anything. like just get the fuck out of bed jeez.

that doesn’t nullify that i am an introvert. i don’t think i faked anything and there’s nothing wrong with wanting to spend quality time. i don’t think anyone made the promise like don’t worry you never need to get off your ass cuz i absolutely don’t go out. just my hot take here. good luck

[Avicenna]

She must have been pretending to be something she wasn’t and now wanted to let you know how she really feels

[Flower7]

Her interests probably changed as the relationship went on.