Why would any woman want to be a home wrecker?

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I just read this question about a girl who wants a married man. She is 18 & he is 30 with a wife & kids. How could you steal someone's husband & live with yourself? Especially if they have children, divorce is very difficult on kids. I just don't understand how some women can actively seek out a married man & try to steal him from his wife. I mean, I just think it's disgusting! Maybe I sound conservative, by it just makes me sick to think about it.

What are your thoughts on this?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

okay first of all STOP it, its all 3 of their fault 1. if your husband trully loved you and his family HE WOULDNT be going along with it 2. the wife is obviously NOT DOING HER JOB and she's doing something wrong that the husband was willing to cheat 3. the bitch after him might have feelings for the guy and if she feels she can do a better job than u, f*** it "ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR"  I wouldn't blame the home wrecker in the first place I would blame my husband because HE MADE THE CHOICE! and id blame my self for not protecting and satisfying  wuts mine! as for the kids, kids can adjust to anything, and if you really cared about your kids well-being then consider this, if the parents are not happy then THE KIDS WONT BE HAPPY plain and simple. a man is a horny idiot that his hormones dictates 50% of his judgement, its mostly the womans responsibility to keep the marriage strong!  IF YOUR DOING UR JOB RIGHT AND SATISFYING UR MAN HE HAS NO REASON TO LEAVE U!and if he does then he's a f***ing idiot and you deserve better that's all and move on. and another thing a REAL woman doesn't need to rely on a man to take care of her, she should be able to handle herself if he leaves her, "behind a every strong man their a strong woman" I don't think anyman would wanna leave a powerful independant woman than can hold her own ground, that's just sexy and a major turn on. also keep in mind that more females are overpopulating the human race and sooner or later were all gonna be fighting over men weather single or married, its the strongest of females that will protect and keep their man! so if your some house wife relying on your mans paycheck and what not your already doing something wrong, you should be able to reel in your own money and keep house AND its your responsibility to keep your figure and look good, if you dint want to go through all this BS you should of either aimed to just be succesfull, not settle, or be a lesbian(no offence to any one) if some scank/bitch is trying to steel your man you should of been well aware of it if You TRULLY KNEW THE GUY You MARRIED TOO, also I would go  a remind my husband who he married and win him back rather than argue with him"LOVE IS A BATTLEFIELD" also remember TRUST TAKES TIME TO BUILD BUT IT CAN EASILY BE BROKEN! and next time be a little more wiser/smart and don't rush into marriage without thinking of all the responsibilities it comes with Ladies!

linz11 · Accepted Answer

as a married 30 something with 2 children I think it is sad that anyone would purposely pursue a married person, I know I wouldn't have when I was young free and single but ultimately it is the mans responsibility to look after his marriage and relationship if he is foolish enough to be so flattered that a young girl is after him to risk his marriage and childrens happiness then he is at bigger fault, after all he should be older and wiser, some men never are and a younger model is just too tempting, what they don't realize is that the young girl is going to tire of the old man and move on leaving the man with nothing but yeah if someone is married then they are off limits and anyone who goes out of there way to break up a marriage is lowdown scum

Butterfly_kisses09 · Accepted Answer

Because some girls are just selfish. They don't think about the consequences of their actions or how they might affect other people involved (gf, wife, kids, etc.) they're out to get what they want (the man). They are manipulative, lying, home wreckers and they don't care about anything other than getting what they want. It disgusts me but karma is a b*tch so when/if they get in a relationship, the same thing could happen to them, only reversed.

martyfellow · Accepted Answer

A lot of women care only about themselves, and will do anything to get what they want regardless of what wreckage results in the home or anywhere else!

Often these are younger women using sex to break up an older man's marriage. I'm not saying it's all their fault, but usually it's the girl who's instigating it.

oxidizer235 · Accepted Answer

b/c they are heartless, self-centered, self-righteous bitches who don't give a damn about anyone other than themselves... the same way with manwhores who bust up marriages by banging married women...

heavenonearth · Answer

I agree with you, I don't think it's right at all. I guess some people just can't stop themselves when they're attracted to someone, even if it means tearing a family apart. Humans are all pretty different, some of us have higher standards and morals than others. Both the guy and girl are at fault for ignoring the negative effect their relationship will have on others.

cun7n1nja · Answer

I think it's disgusting too. People who cheat, or assist others in cheating, pretty much automatically lose a bit of respect from me. Also, if he's wiling to cheat on [and essentially be willing to give up] his wife and family for the girl, what makes her think he wouldn't or couldn't do the same thing to her when the next bitch comes along? Lmao.

mormollio · Answer

Some women know what they want and they get it. Married men included. It's a low thing to do, but it really doesn't bother me that much. If anything I'd be pissed at the husband for leaving his wife/kids behind like that.

YobootyStank · Answer

yea it is pretty low and disgusting, I actually know many of my friends dad who leave their wives and go find a younger wife and its just so horrible. I guess if a girl really wants a guy no one stands in her way, I mean look at angelina jolie

ihatework · Answer

pretty sad. pretty sad the guy would be into dumping his family for a girl just out of high school as well.

ItalianBro · Answer

I think your husband is at fault. The girl did nothing wrong. The husband could of easily said no to the girl but he decided that the girl means more than his family.

Anonymous · Answer

my cousin's second wife did this. he was having issues with his first wife (now ex) and his current wife just made the situation worse. she knew he was married with a child and she still did her best to break up his marriage and she succeeded

Deana_Navarra · Answer

It takes 2 to tango and if the man was really in love and happily married with his wife he wouldn't have left her for another woman. Just saying.

ambermarie · Answer

yea it is pretty whacked, people can be heartless.

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