The colour of my neck and belly is darker than my face and cleavage? And my belly is much more darker than my neck?

[Anonymous]

It makes me insecure about my body. I think if I showed my body to the person I love he will definitely think that How ugly I look from inside.

In our culture preference is given to light colour. Men also go for dark colour. I have seen lots of women but none of them have darker belly like I have. The problem is not in the colour but the difference in colour of different body parts. In childhood, i was bullied for having dark colour on my hip area and neck. Moreover, I have chicken skin which makes my skin more terrible to look or to touch.

What should I do to have uneven skin tone. ?

I love my body but I am insecure about it.

[ohsheeT]

First of all I want to thank you for this question because I read it and then I read it again. And read it again.

Because I could feel your words and I had to stop and think about myself and during my youth years growing up school from grade school to high school even in college for the years I attended anyway. I never really liked my picture taken because I could always see something different looking at one of my pictures are looking into the mirror and I started thinking about it..

And I have to ask myself if I would have just accepted myself like I do right now what did it stop me from accomplishing what did I not do because I was so afraid of somebody saying something I guess or judging me back then
And today is somebody said something or judged me I would smile and politely say go f*** yourself or I would just say thank you because I don't care because today I know who I am and if I don't look in the mirror I can't see myself anyway so I like myself from the minute I wake up until I go to sleep even if I do look at myself in the mirror but I'm just curious if it's does the same thing for you if it holds you back because you think somebody's going to judge you in some way or form and I mean I understand your

Point because you said you were bullied well you can't be bullied anymore and it really doesn't matter what people think are saying about you as long as you know who you are and as long as you love yourself and as long as you accept yourself

And I guess if you can't do it today there will be a moment in time where you will be able to do it because you'll be old enough to understand who gives a f*** nobody really and the person that you want to show your body to I think that person probably is a bigger person than that and I think he probably loves you from the inside out and I really don't think that he would have a problem with any part of you if he loves you so I'm just saying don't let anything hold you back and don't be afraid of what people are going to think or say because no matter what in life people are going to think or say something and then guess what they walk away and you never see them again so who cares

We were all made the way we were made and I have to accept that and I have to love that and I have to acknowledge it and say I am who I am I don't care if you like me or not I don't care if you think I'm handsome or beautiful or sexier anything because I know who I am and that's all that matters

I haven't read anybody else's answers and I probably won't but I hope that you too can accept yourself and just love yourself no matter what so I thank you for this question I mean this question it was a good question I don't have an answer for you I'm sorry.. but if I was to see you I think I would accept you and I would have you and I would say don't worry about it you look beautiful because when somebody says that to you it's because who you are on the inside the projects to the outside so when they say you look beautiful they mean it when I say it I said because of who you are on the inside because that's where true beauty comes from and then our Temple our body falls to the ground one day and then we have to go and I believe we have to judge ourselves so we have to love ourselves and accept ourselves and do the best and be the best we can be not worried about our little things that we don't like about ourselves we were made with perfection no matter how we're made there's no. Lemons were made where we're made for a reason and that reason was to make us grow to accept things that we cannot accept and not worry about the small details love ourselves

[Asker]

Such a great answer❤️

[ohsheeT]

But it was such a good question I mean because I think we all go through that one way or the other somehow and we all hold ourselves back I mean for years I think and I wouldn't have figured that out until I read the question.

And what I really wish is that I had an answer for you even though I answered her for myself I was hoping that it will help you too because I can just feel you I can feel your energies you're holding yourself back to and that's not like I said I think I wasted a lot of time

[Asker]

Well its called insecurity
I have saved your comment to read it again when ever I felt depressed about myself.

[ohsheeT]

. Yeah I definitely understand those but at the same time I have to understand that number one I love myself I like myself no matter what it is that bothers me I have confidence within myself because I don't really care what other people say or do or point that's about them if they have to do that that's about them I just answered a question just a second ago about a relationship and people not having confidence and your insecurity comes from well the same place mine does probably about what are people going to think what are people going to say well you know what I have to say about that

There's always going to be somebody pointing their fingers saying something because they are so unhappy they have to it's like a tick in them they're just not happy not unless they're putting somebody down or saying something rude about somebody so if we know this and we understand this then we have to let our little insecurities go.
I know I probably have some I can't think of them right now though that's how big of a deal it is to me

I am me myself and I I like myself I love myself and I'm not worried about what other people say about me

Because I don't care I really don't if they want to waste the time to talk about me if they want to try to make me feel bad by using words it's just not going to happen cuz I don't care I'm at the point in my life where I don't allow people to faze me anymore . I'm trying to think of an insecurity that I have that actually means something but I can't think of one because there's nothing that big of a deal really.

And I have to ignore instead just because I love myself and like myself and I'm confident it doesn't mean that I'm perfect and I don't want to be perfect because it's like the perfect and I can't become better.

. And that means I can't grow anymore and if I can't do that then that's just a waste of time.
I guarantee it you can ask 20 gag people if they have insecurities in all 20 people are going to say yes

[ohsheeT]

Some people would say out of those 20 people they would ask well what is it so they can look at it so they can determine if it's that big of a deal or not who cares it's not their business to determine anything LOL

Just remember this it really doesn't matter what people say or think that's their business it's their loss if they don't want to get to know you before they judge you but you're the only person on the inside of you you're the only person that could control your happiness or sadnezs . But for me I think if I can acknowledge it if I can accept it then I don't have to worry about it no more because it's a waste of time it really is I realize that yesterday during your question. But if you find yourself down and out don't read that just come talk to me I'll straighten your ass out LOL I'll tell you how it is I'm smiling

We truly are who we are and either we have to accept it or I guess we don't and if you don't then I guess we should do something about it but if you know yourself does it really even matter.

[jahaims]

Most guys wouldn't care at all. My wife has a birth mark that starts at her stomach and wraps around all the way to her leg. It's a darker skin tone. I find it cute on her.

[dudeinohio]

Guys really don't care

[HungTexan]

It’s just you. Embrace it.

[MrZameer]

you need to accept it only