What’s the most outrageous thing you encountered with somebody you spoke to at any point from a dating site?

[Anonymous]

one time I talked to somebody who did not want to be with someone who is Jewish. I’m actually a Christian, who is technically Jewish because of my maternal side, so it had nothing to do with my beliefs. It just had to do with the fact that I’m Jewish by descent. And she acted like that was her personal preference and a totally normal view, but in reality that’s pretty disgustingly antisemitic…. and insane. It would be maybe a little like saying I don’t wanna be with somebody who is Irish or French, etc.. except worse because it’s like a neo-Nazi type of thing.

[ManOnFire]

Did she actually not want a Jewish mate period and was open to all other faiths? Or did she not want a Jewish mate because she doesn't men of any faith that isn't her own?

If it's the first reason, then it was probably anti-semitism. If it was the second reason then she simply is not trying to compromise her faith, with anyone. Was she a Christian herself? If so then she was probably looking for a man of the same faith.

[Asker]

I don't think you are understanding what I am saying. It had to do with my genetic lineage...

[ManOnFire]

So if it was about your genetic lineage then she is clearly anti-semitic. That does not have to be your problem. There are also Asian women on these sites who literally write out on their profiles that they don't want black men.

We know that anti-semitism will exist until the end of the world. It is unfortunate and I'm sorry you experienced that.

[Anonymous]

It didn't happen to me. But I saw this one woman's dating profile. And whenever she'd have a, shall we say "less than pleasant conversation" with a guy. She would screenshot it and add it to her pics for public humiliation of the guy.

She messaged me and I said to myself, "no way". This woman frightens me.😆

To be fair, a lot of the things those guys said they deserved to be publicly shamed for. But that's not the point. I think she had a screw loose. She did not strike me as a very kind person.

[Anonymous]

Most outrageous thing that happened twice is guys insulting my mom when they don’t know her and I also had a dude say I look pregnant and he said he didn’t mean it like that and wasn’t sure why I was offended. I’ve seriously about had it with men.