Why guys can't wait until marriage for sex they just want to bang bang?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

It's not about the bang bang it's about to cuddle to becoming one and then the bang bang

Pound pound

If you want to change this you have to change parents the only thing a boy sees growing up on how to love a woman is basically nothing

So the only information they get is you have to show a woman that you love her by having sex by pleasing her that's basically what all boys are seeing as they grow up from their father because father don't even show it so change the way boys get their information on how to level person because in their minds the only way to love a person is sex that's the way they're all brought up

[conanbdetective]

For me, it felt like being pressured into it. I grew up in a time and place where racking up as many digits as possible was a trophy or an accomplishment.

It's really not after everything I've gone through. What's important is doing it with someone you actually care about. Whatever you and your partner's relationship is, care about each other at least; whether y'all are married, friends, engaged, whatever.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Some want lust.

Few want to check.

Different cultures have different people.

In western culture its a norm but in Asian mostly guys dont marry the girl they fucked.

[Asker]

Lol, these days both Asian & the West also same. Hookup culture is everywhere around the world. East Asians mostly have sex, except a bigger percentage of Indians/Muslims (Not all though)
Western countries: Only the devout/proper Christians yes.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

But in Western countries they hookup openly but in eastern they promises for wedding. In eastern countries virginity matters a lot. Thats why girls hesitate to sleep.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

There is nothing funny to laugh..

[Asker]

The dating apps in the east are full of guys looking for sex & they are not westerners by the way. Western guys with east Asian women already fucked each other (Intimate if not the guy won't wait after marriage only if the guy really likes the girl/or shares Christian values)

That's why they don't pick Indian women most of them don't have sex b4 marriage. Thai, Filipina, Chinese yes especially younger generation.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Due to lack of data I can't say anything

[Asker]

I live in the East so I know.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Well to my experience, men who have pffered me bang bang was only interested in bang bang. Its kind of insulting for me. But it's the fact. They wanted se. x without any commitment. Some people may hide their real intentions, to get benefit from you.
If someone will be sincere, he will wait for marriage.

[Asker]

That's because guys are after 1 thing, they will fuck you & dump you. Never give your body easily

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Yeah They want the body... they can't get it... I am so rigid about it...
The most terrifying thing is when they use you and after that they dump you..

[Asker]

Yes, be careful. Guys got bad intentions. Make him wait if he really loves you.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

No, you dont know the person is waiting for you still loves you or having bad intentions..

[Asker]

That's why God said you body is your temple & sex is a gift from god only for Husband & Wife

[Abbycado]

Some do wait. I have not. I wouldn't buy a car without turning it on and test driving it.

[AnonAndrew]

Because sex is fun, feels good, and is all-around amazing.

I don't see any reason to wait. To me it's wild that people would go on a first date and not have sex.

[Anonymous]

Men have always wanted sex. But today, they expect casual sex outside of marriage, because women have set that expectation. This is a hole women have dug for themselves, and I don't see how they'll ever be able to climb back out of it. That genie ain't going back in the bottle.

[slatyb]

Almost no one wants to wait for marriage because we are marrying much later.

[Pterodon]

Better question is why do you want to wait? Wouldn’t you rather find out if you can satisfy each other first?

[andy530]

The test driving the car before purchase is a good analogy to understand this concept

[Anonymous]

Lol, I'm waiting my whole life, still a virgin.

[Asker]

Go to Church/Events if you're a devout Christian & try Christian Cupid to find someone who shares the same values as you.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not religious, I'm still a virgin because all of my loves were unrequited.

[Asker]

Just curious where are you from? USA?

[Asker]

What's your ethnicity?

[Asker]

Try different ethnicities, got so many women single. Find overseas use Bumpy app

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not from USA, I'm from South-East Europe.
I'm Caucasian, Slavic.
Of course I'd like to try different ethnicities, I'll check out that app.

[Asker]

Oh I see. I believe you can find someone one day from Overseas/Different ethnicity. Since you're Caucasian, Slavic & not from USA I don't see a problem for you. Caucasian race is the most desired.

Download more than 1 apps like Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel & also put yourself up on dating websites like Asian dating. com. indian cupid and so on.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, I'll try all the apps, thanks for the advice.

[Asker]

You're welcome :)

[itsannalee]

You don’t buy a car before test drive.

[Intheclouds00]

Because pussy feels hella good.

[AnonAndrew]

@intheclouds00
This is the correct answer.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Says who lol

[ehatsham_hussain]

Some guys wait