Why do men rush the relationship after sex?

[Numznumz]

Been dating around and most of the men I have sex with or give head start rushing the relationship and start talking about moving in immediately or try to see me everyday at all hours like I don’t have a life of my own, and not to sound arrogant but my bed room skills are amazing but I noticed where a lot of women claim men pull away after sex, they seem to do the opposite with me, over all, emotionally and mentally I’m a slow mover, but sex is just sex, I don’t really take it seriously anymore but I’m getting tired of men rushing everything, it’s anoying, my friend told me it’s cuz I give them too much too fast and their heads get clouded with lust and they go crazy, but I don't know, how should I start approaching men in the beginning if that’s the problem?

[sanrio123]

you should just not sleep with them if you know you dont want a relationship with them. hook up with guys who want to just hook up, unless you like making them suffer, that's another case. there's a lot of tinder guys for u haha

[Numznumz]

Would like relationship with them but I’m not gonna move in with them after two weeks

[sanrio123]

i mean why not move in, you already gave up your body. might as well. if they're psychos they would have killed you already wouldn't they?

[sanrio123]

honestly, a lot of girls would like to be you. one day you're going to sleep with a guy who disregards you, and then you're going to want to move in, cause its human nature. I appreciate these guys

[sanrio123]

i mean you're 32, like this is the time to think about having kids making a family. if you want to sleep around just go for 20 yr old guys. the clock is ticking and if you have awesome guys around, take advantage of it and stay with one partner for the rest of your life.

[Numznumz]

I have kids, been done the move in thing, but I’m not stupid enough to to move in after two weeks of dating, that’s dumb asf and your replies sound bitter

[mistixs]

Some people (both men and women) get attached easily

[Anonymous]

well unless I experience being w you myself I honestly couldn’t say lol most of us men aren’t like that, maybe it’s a certain vibe you put off that attracts those men specifically I don’t know

[Numznumz]

I’m pretty funny, I can make people laugh but I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe it’s a combination of your skills n being funny lol

[bowenw]

You may be able to weed out the guys that will rush the relationship by holding off on sex until you really get to know them. That could be weeks or months depending on they guy.

[Numznumz]

Yeah that’s what I’m thinking

[Browneye57]

No, sex is not just sex. Sex is how men connect. You still don't really understand the male psyche.

[Slim57]

Cause they like the sex I guess haha

[andy530]

Weird... I wouldn’t think most men would.

[Numznumz]

Right

[andy530]

Kinda crazy tbh it kinda goes against the dominant narrative of “guys just want sex” which obviously is a stereotype and is not true of all guys but you have had a pattern of interesting experiences

[Numznumz]

Definitely never thought this to be true of all men, I don’t really think of them as sexed crazed dip shit fuck boys like most girls, treat them like human beings , but I have a high sex drive and know some crazy tricks, I can say I’m probably one of the best at what I do so I think my friend is right and they just go crazy with lust

[andy530]

That very well might be the case especially if you have a really high drive

[Anonymous]

Its called sex bombing, if u wanna ‘take things slow’ consider not fking them the moment u meet em

[Numznumz]

I like sex, ima porn star, I tell them who am from the beginning

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah okay enjoy

[Numznumz]

Also, I looked up sex bombing because I’ve never heard this phrase and I think you mean love bombing which I’m not doing because I’m not making promises or lavishing them with gifts and romantic gestures right off the bat then making unreasonable demands, it’s the opposite there

[Opinion Owner]

I meant what I said, but you hear what you want so enjoy!

[Numznumz]

No it’s not

[Anonymous]

Oh this is hilarious.

[In_Trance]

rarely

[Numznumz]

Rarely? What?