How would feel if you met a man who's in great shape but used to be overweight?

[Professor-college]

Would that bother you?

[ItsJill]

When I met my current boyfriend he was overweight and with a beer belly. Now he’s lost 18lbs and ofc I find him more attractive and healthier but I found him attractive back when he was fat too.

[Professor-college]

Well in my case I didn't have a beer belly since I have never actually drunk beer. He's very lucky to have you that's for sure

[Nikki1989]

I couldn't care less if he is in great shape or overweight, whether that be now or in the past.

[Professor-college]

Well that's a really nice thing to say I can tell you a great woman

[MemeSupreme]

what lol

it would not bother me at all or anyone

[Professor-college]

Well that's happened to me before. That's why i want to see other words women's opinion

[MemeSupreme]

there's no way

that's actually shocking to me. i'm sorry that happened bc even tho she's crazy for that bc ik it still feels shitty

[Professor-college]

Well thank you for saying that it makes me feel bad and not all women think so

[DishLady]

How would the girl know that?

[Professor-college]

Well when she gets to talk to your family or she sees old pictures of you

[DishLady]

Aha, I got you. Well, if she's worth knowing she won't give a shit about it.

[Professor-college]

I see well I just wanted to know because my ex was not exactly nice to me when she found out about it.

[DishLady]

Well she's an idiot... On to the next person.

Also, if you feel it will bother your future relationships too early on you might want to have a talk with your folks about nicknames and things that will make things uncomfortable for the new girl.

MOST people go through at least SOME sort of weight fluctuation in their lifetime. It's not unreasonable to expect someone to bounce back from that and become fit.

[Professor-college]

Well in my case about I was about 96 kilograms... So I decided to go to the gym and to a nutritiologist it took me about 11 months but I went down to 82 kg with almost no fat just muscle. So I did change a lot. I haven't bounced back since I don't drink or smoke have a healthy diet and I still do exercise besides my work. Thank you so much for your kind answer I can tell that I was just unlucky and that's all women are that way. And to be honest I don't mind if a woman is chubby I mean not all women have to be 100% fit I have met some who are kind of fat and I still like them very much... Their figure is not the reason why the relationship didn't work...

[DishLady]

I think you just hit one shallow gal. Try to attend activities that will allow you to meet less shallow women, you know? I've met some very nice people at my church, for example, or at community networking events and holiday socials. I'd avoid meeting "hardbody" type women at the gym or jogging groups etc. who may end up being on the shallow side.

[Professor-college]

Well this woman I met her at work... She is a fellow professor. But I'll try to meet women at different places like you just said. Thank you for the good advice

[DishLady]

Hope it helps. (She's an educated woman and balked at a few old pics? I'm really just disappointed.)

[Professor-college]

Well you're not the only one... I also expected a very different attitude