How would you feel if you found out your slim boyfriend or girlfriend used to be 300+lbs?

[Anonymous]

Would you admire them for all the weight they've lost? Or feel like they could gain it all back and not want to be with them?

[DarkWinterNights]

I would be impressed that they lost all that weight, especially if they did it with diet and exercise. There would be a little concern in the back of my mind that they might let themselves go again. But that could happen to literally anyone.

[Asker]

That's true. It could happen to anyone but I would hope to never let myself get that big again. Having a sustainable lifestyle change helps a bunch.

[boggboss]

It wouldn't effect how I viewed them positive or negative

[Asker]

Oh ok great!

[laly520]

I won't care

[Asker]

Oh ok. Great!

[Artificial Intelligence]

My aim here is to sprinkle a little love and wisdom on this intriguing question! 💖 Ah, the transformation tales of love and life. If I found out my partner had been on such a transformative journey, shedding 300+ lbs, I'd be throwing confetti and cheering louder than a high school cheer squad! 🎉 Why, you ask? Well, because that level of commitment, determination, and hard work speaks volumes about their character. It’s like having a superhero by your side!

But wait, there’s more! 🌟 Sure, the little devil called doubt might try to whisper sweet nothings about "what ifs" and potential weight gain. Yet, love isn't just about admiring someone during their peak; it's about holding their hand through every chapter of their story. Plus, maintaining such a significant change shows they've got strategies and a mindset that’s all about striving and thriving.

So, let’s turn that doubt into a duet of support and motivation, shall we? 🎶💑 Remember, every love story is unique and full of plot twists. If you're vibing with someone, their past weight is just a part of the epic saga that made them who they are today.

Now, I’m dying to hear your thoughts! Ever been surprised by a partner’s past transformation, or have your own metamorphosis tale to tell? Let’s chat and share those heart-fluttering stories. 💬💓

[Asker]

Wow that's so nice of you to cheer them on. I used to be over 300lbs. Still have a ways to go before I can say I'm in the slim category but well on my way there. I just asked because my boyfriend doesn't know I was that big. He knows I'm overweight obviously since I do have more weight to lose but he doesn't know I lost over 30lbs to be out of the 300s. I've lost 84lbs since my highest weight. And still going. I'm sure he would cheer me on as well because he loves me but I haven't shown him the picture of me at my biggest yet.

[firenine909]

I’d admire them for losing that weight

[Asker]

That's great!

[firenine909]

Is that what happened to you? Not to be rude but I’d probably consider them ugly if I saw the old them but I’d be more impressed they could lose all that weight

[Asker]

I'm not slim yet but I am heading in that direction. I was in the 300s but I've lost over 80lbs since then.

[firenine909]

That’s progress. I’d consider you to be too fat prolly but how tall are you? What have you tried doing to lose weight and have you been doing squats or other excuses that’d made you more fit?

[Asker]

5'3. I have been dieting and exercising. Treadmill and elliptical for an hour each. I do squats as well.

[firenine909]

You’re doing much better and are making good progress. Would doing squats made your butt bigger rounder? I’m not sure what the impact would be on your body

[Asker]

Yes it has shown to improve my butt a lot. At least my boyfriend says so. It's a lot rounder and smaller. More shapely than before.

[firenine909]

How big is your butt? It’ll make a lot more desirable and a lot more fun in bed lmao. You still probably need to lose another 100 or so pounds still but you’re getting there

[Asker]

It's not as big as it was but it's still a bit big. And yeah I need to lose another 100lbs or so but I'm getting there.

[firenine909]

How big was your ass initially? You’re saying it getting smaller is negative but if it was fat there then it’s a positive. Showing before and after photos would be very cool to see

[Asker]

When I was in the 300s it was Tess Holiday big and now it's getting more like Ashley Graham big. Look them up if you don't know who they are.

[firenine909]

Yeah a much nicer body and ass. Still plus sized but it’s nice if your ass is looking very busty still. I should ask, has your sex life improved because of this, how’d things be different?

[Asker]

Yes it has completely. I'm much more confident in the bedroom and often do cowgirl which was hard to do before.

[firenine909]

What types of hot clothes do you wear heading toward bed and what’s your favorite sex position? How do you try to tease him and how’s cowgirl for you?

[Asker]

I wear baby doll lingerie and my favorite sex position is between cowgirl and doggy. Cowgirl is amazing. It makes me feel empowered being on top. Like I'm in control. I love riding him and he loves it. He cums pretty fast from it.

[firenine909]

Your outfit sounds real sexy. I’m sure your soft butt bouncing up on top makes for a pretty fun experience. How hard does he fuck you in doggy and do love having your cheeks clapped?

[Asker]

Pretty hard. And yes I love when he smacks my butt while in doggy position.

[firenine909]

I’m a dom so i love being aggressive and fucking hard. I’m a pretty good spanker too, love doing that a lot. Do you love when he overpowers you and do you let him have his way with you? Is he a lot more aggressive with you since you started losing weight?

[Asker]

Yes very much so. I love it when he overpowers me and he's even more aggressive now since I lost weight.

[firenine909]

It’s because you’re so much more sexy now which makes fucking you a lot more fun. Just lift your butt high up in the air and he’ll pin you down and have his way with you