A month ago we met in person and everything was going well. However, he broke up with me because he wasn't attracted as he thought. After having a deep talk, he told that maybe we can try to save the relationship if I loose weight. I was shocked and I took my time to think about that. Next day, he talked with his friend and he decided that the best option is to break up with me. I asked him many questions and he said things that hurt me a lot:
- When I see my girlfriend I wanna feel that I'm with the most beautiful woman in the world, but that's not the case with you
- I want to be with a girl that is slim as I am
- Can you show me a photo of your mom? I wanna know how would you look like if you lose weight
- Are you sure that you have the same weight in your photos?
At the end he asked for my forgiveness and told me to be friends. I was devastated and I feel empty. I told him to not text me again becauce I need time to heal. I said that maybe one day if I feel better I’m gonna send him a message, but I´m so confused. This experience hit me hard on my wounds. I´m trying to overcome everything, but sometimes I feel stuck….
Cherry of the cake: my ex sent me a box of gifts with a letter months ago, but we thought that it was lots because I never received it. In that letter he asked me to be his girlfriend. Yesterday the courrier told me that they found the box. Should I get the box?