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Could You Be In A Relationship With Someone Who Used To Be Fat?
I would definitely date them... they are more humble in their appearance they are not conceited or vain like the girls who have always been considered in shape or beautiful. #iUsedtobefat. So I get it. As a matter of fact I would prefer if they used to be fat.
It's like dating someone rich who used to be poor vs dating someone who's been rich their entire life.. creates a sense of humbleness In living both realities.. it's not taken for granted and it's appreciated.
100%... In fact they get me back in shape with all that determination.. Motivation.. Hardwork.. People don't realise that it's not just their bodies becoming healthy and strong... BUT THEIR WILL TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING IS ALSO DEVELOPING... WILL TO OVERCOME THE LAZINESS... WILL TO CHANGE AND TAKE CHARGE IS GROWING.. I would love to meet a fitness freak.
That's so true! It really takes so much determination and self discipline to lose weight, especially a large amount.
I used to be about 30 lbs overweight in high school and lost it all, and it was hard work but turned me into a better person in so many more ways than just making me healthier! It was confidence boosting and I developed incredible discipline.
Yes, I’ve always been attracted to someone of a larger statue. I’ve dated several men who were morbidly obese and who just struggle with a healthy lifestyle. To me it’s no different from dating a regular sized person. I know to treat them with respect even if they lose the weight. But I prefer heavier than skinny just a personal preference.
I dated a guy who used to be really big but he was still quite large I thought he was OK. But my slimness made him rather insecure and he started to take out the fact that my metabolism was so fast on me. Including trying to control my eating just so I'd get as big as him... He was very spiteful
Of course I love me a used to be big girl 1:she a freak cause she know how to put it down when she was big 2she knows how to consume a dick for sure 3 if she got stretch marks even better that means she a tiger and it's... GREEEAT! 4Love and beauty comes from within if you can't be with this warrior of a woman because she was big 💔 than fuck off cause you ain't even a man.
Of course. It shows they can commit. It also shows that they have been to a dark place and were able to come back. They're resilient. That's a core trait to look for in someone. in my opinion
Post prego I was up to 189#s. My man loved me, but it was obvious he dint care for me that big... it took almost 10 mos with a dr's diet to lose weight...
My man likes best that I still have my big boobs..
Well I'm presently fat so I hope so lol. Keep trying to get back into the gym but I'm almost too sick to workout. Even a modest workout seems to knock my immune system out and make me catch a cold. It's stupid.
Damn near killed myself trying a keto diet too.
Congrats on your weight loss, lord knows it ain't easy.
Yes I would. I was obese myself and I know the hard road to get fit. I she has my full respect. She has the drive to lose weight, then she has a good and strong character. I would definitely start a relationship.
I mean, I used to be fat (not super overweight but still), so yes, I'd definitely be with someone who used to be fat and I don't see why anyone wouldn't be
I would definitely. I know the pain of getting into shape. Inorder to do that first and foremost thing is to love and respect our own self. And one who can be that person to self can love the whole world. So it's bliss to be with such people
Someone who USED to be fat, I'd have no problem being in a relationship with. Actually I kinda find that attractive. It shows that they didn't like something and instead of just accepting it they did something about it and made a change.
Nope, not a chance. Firstly because I prefer bigger girls, so that would be a downgrade. Second, because weight loss causes significant aging and I do not want to date someone that looks 5 or 10 years older than she is. Third, because weight loss is a major red flag for lack of self confidence and body acceptance.
Why would that even BEGIN to matter? People are not their background, their struggles, their disorders, any of the above!! If we work well together, a partners former appearance means nothing!! *I* personally may have had trouble dating someone on a serial diet kick, as a recovering bullimic, as that mentality can trigger a relapse for me... but that's hardly typical!!
F he fears God he will not sin I will not sin. F I continue to be good until I die, I get to go to heaven. Second life.
I want to make sure that I will go to heaven! All mankind requires to be good not lukewarm will or do the will of God. We can be forgiven, God forgives us but we must also B good, be a new you, not live in sin and before we die may we make confession.
May we all go to heaven!
I am not joking in my opinion. Whether your fat or it's good if your good. It's easy f you've been good since you're little or start right now n B good! <3 :)
Me well I will only call her a slut only if she is married and have kids together and she doesn't know that her husband is a good man and she still did it even though we told her that what I call a slut
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