Guys: Would you date a girl who used to be fat?

[Anonymous]

I used to be fat and have lost a lot of weight... But here's the catch. I have loose skin.
Somewhat like this. Not me but kind of similar to mine. I have slightest wrinkles and stretch marks on belly too.

Would you date someone like that?
PS- Don't say something like "just get surgery to get it removed" because I can't. It is too costly and I can't afford it.

[tacoty21]

Omg it hurts me when girls ask these kinds of questions. Yes there are men out there that would date you, like me, who don't care what you look like as long as your happy with yourself. There are also men who find it absolutely disgusting but that there preference and you can't blame them. You just have to find someone who doesn't care about silly stuff like looks and focus on the important things like personalty

[Aizou]

Of course I would. In fact I think it's awesome that you've lost weight, it's a sign of not giving up, and that you can take initiative. "flaws" can be looked past, and in worst case, fixed in time. If all "loose skin" you're referring to is like the right picture, I'd have to say that you're worrying more than you should. :)

[Asker]

Well I have bit wrinkles and stretch marks as well thanks for your support tho

[Anonymous]

To me it does look fine. Congratulations on your success! I lost lots of pounds too and my belly seems flat and fine. But my boobs are saggy and have some stretch marks and loose skin because they were too big (still i am 34DD) I haven't seen any men who doesn't like it. They might've thought they were not pretty. But the most important thing is what's inside of you.

[Anonymous]

You look awesome lady CONGRATS!! That's HUGE!

I think you look awesome!!!

[ThisDudeHere]

I don't see a problem with it, so yes I would. A little overlapping flesh ain't that bad in my opinion - it just goes to show you had the drive to improve, which is admirable and hot in it's own way.

[GingerGuy]

Yes. If a guy truly likes you, he likes you, imperfections (we all have them) and all. If a guy leaves you because of that, then he never truly liked you or cares about you.

[davidshaw]

you honestly look fine, your stretch marks hardly show and you've done a great job :)

[Ro0kie]

If you'd be surprised, some people would take advantage

[Ro0kie]

Fat or not, you're a woman.

[Abe90]

Sure. I was in the same boat too. So I know what it's like to deal with that

[Abe90]

I tried a procedure and it helped out a bit for me. Look up "Venus freeze" online and see if it interests you enough to check it out. You don't need to do it, but it can certainly help you with your confidence level

[Asker]

Thanks. Do you have loose skin too?

[Abe90]

Yup. I lost 100lbs at a fast rate and it left my stomach with some flab. I had spoken to a skin treatment doctor and she told me that I have skin hanging. I went ahead and did that Venus freeze and it tightened my skin a bit. But I still need to have a tummy tuck to get rid of it. Depending on your situation, you're skin could be enough for the Venus freeze to do the trick

[Anonymous]

Guys would probably think it's hot knowing that you put all of this work in to lose weight.

[dolemite68]

i wouldn't mind it just keep toning up at the gym u'll look fine

[Abe90]

Hitting the gym and "toning" doesn't necessarily help loose skin disappear.

[Astaroth1313]

Hell yeah! Doesn't matter whether you've got some skin or not, we're definitely not perfect so honestly it shouldn't be a problem.

[marcusmike]

I would date any girl , if I love her nothing can make me refuse her

[Ayshea]

Congrats! That's quite an achievement. 😊

[Kmymfc]

The past is in the past

[Anonymous]

Honestly, yes. Guys aren't that complicated.

[Spellbound88]

Yes I would... Don't worry about it...

[EdirneCigeri]

Oh yes :) İ like right one :))

[Anonymous]

it doesn't matter how they sed to look in past

[Exterminatore]

Yes.

[red_knight]

yes why wouldn't I?

[MeGo99]

Go to gym

[Anonymous]

That's no problem.