3rd time in a matter of a month…you can’t tell me this doesn’t feel like kind of a beta move? And they don’t follow up again after they give their #?

[Anonymous]

You take “initiative” in wanting to meet up apparently and then want to move off the app, what happened to guys asking for the girl’s number or social media?

They’re beta

Not beta, you’re the issue

[Zack-Bann]

“Text me” in their mind is in fact taking initiative.
They’re trying to be bold.
Or at least think they are


But I agree on the general idea


When I wanna get someone off a dating app we usually vibe and then talk about meeting up then I say
“Let’s do that [referring to the date]. Shoot me your number and we’ll figure out the details”


Also a guy is better off not getting your IG otherwise he’s be drowned in a list of DMs and his messages might get lost


The way I see it: if you’re unwilling to share a phone number then you’re even less willing to go on a date. So why even bother


And yes most women I’ve “closed” on a dating app had no issue giving me their number (which goes without saying I’ve never shared)

[Nikki1989]

This is bollocks teenagers get up to. What is your problem?