Whenever you meet someone new and feel you guys are about to go to next base, do you assume they are clean or ask for a STD test prior?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Assume they are clean and get on. 👍

Ask for a STD test first prior. ✅

[DizzyDesii]

They have to get tested before anything goes down. And most knew they wouldn't get anything out of me, but they still respectfully got tested “just in case”

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[Sasha0426]

It’s never a good idea to assume they’re clean.

[Lliam]

I could go either way. It depends on how I perceive her character and honesty.

If I had any doubts I'd ask if she minded testing us both for STDs. The problem is, they are expensive ($169 ea,), and you have to mail them and wait for the results.

The only time I ever got a test was with one girlfriend who asked if I would be willing to go to the Free Clinic with her to get us both tested. I readily agreed. I actually admired the fact that she cared about her body. It was also an indication that she didn't sleep with just anyone.

Aside from that, though, if she had self respect and self esteem and seemed trustworthy, I'd ask if she had herpes or anything. If she said no, I believed her.

I'm not very paranoid. And out of all my girlfriends, I never caught anything even though we didn't use condoms.

[Anemone978]

I ask them if they are clean and take them at their word lol If I die, I die 🤣🤣
For real tho I been waiting two months to be able to get checked and I'm kind of scared lol I was with the guy in October.. and was too scared to even make an appointment..
I guess its true the hotter the person the more likely you are to not be safe.. 😅

[RavVid]

I am going get on and get in but I am not going to assume they are clean. Definitely wearing a condom.

Also will practice clean hand/dirty hand.

Aside from that I don't want STD of child support.

[Nikki1989]

These days, it is just good manners to have a current test.

[LiamJHayden]

When I was younger I never cared and somehow dodged the barrage of bullets. Now I require a test.

[shades777]

assume th best and screw then when you gwt your std go to the doctor get it cleaned and curse them out for being a nasty mf'er

[Anonymous]

67% of women ask for a std test... that's laughable. 😆😆😆

[exitseven]

I would roll the dice and hope for the best.

[Googlemyahoo]

Legally they have to tell you.